I think I need to clear a few things up. The rumors about me are out of control. Normally I don't pay attention or validate them with a response because I figure if you really know me you would never believe such silly things. Also, some recent things have been very personal and I really don't like to talk about those sort of things on Tengaged.
With regards to Dru, I obviously made a mistake. There is no excuse for it and I will not ask you to feel sorry for me because there is no reason. I personally think that a lot of the information that people think they have with regards to that story is either grossly exaggerated or simply false. I also wonder why people would defend someone who would post nude pictures of a girl on internet websites for a laugh. Regardless, I will take the full blame.
I have been in an emotionally and sometimes phsically abusive marriage for a long time. I was embarassed to say this to very many people for several reasons. Most of you are too young to understand this but people stay in relationships like this for all sorts of reasons. My husband kept very tight control of money so I had none. I have been continually worried about my children not having a dad and the struggle it is to be a single parent. I wasn't able to finish college for a number of reasons when I was young so finding a good job to support my kids would be difficult. Those are only a few of the worries I had and the reasons I stayed.
On the day that the picture was posted to my husbands facebook he picked up the kids and didn't come home. Even though he knew about the picture and the situation with Dru before it was posted, he still refused to answer my phone calls or let me know where the kids were. I found out later that he immeadiately filed for divorce and for a protection order against me. I in the mean time called the police and with help was able to file for a protection order. With out going into the details of what happened I will say that my protection order was granted and his was denied. Ever since then I have had my children and we have been safe together. I have since, with the help and advice of my lawyer, dropped the protection order and allowed him to spend some time with the kids.
If you want to think that you ruined my life you can. I think that one day you may look back on this moment in your life with deep regret for doing and saying such things to another person.
I think that in a way Tengaged has saved my life. I don't know that I ever would have had the courage to leave if this hadn't happened. I am starting my life all over again and am thrilled to discover all the new possibilities I have.
As far as the question of why did I join Stars with all of this going on. The answer is simple. Today is the first day that my husband has the kids in three weeks. I cleaned the house and did my homework and realized ... I have nothing to do for two more days! Two people sent me a pm around that time begging me to join Stars and on a whim I joined. I hope I have time to play and can stay for awhile in the game but even if I don't make it very far it will keep my mind busy thinking of something other than all of my personal problems.
Isn't that why we all love Tengaged? It's a world outside of our own that we can escape to during the day. I know that is why I have always come back. I get put down a lot because I am not "adult" enough but that is another reason why I love Tengaged. I can be as silly and stupid as I like :) I don't get to do that in real life very much.
This is sooo long and honestly I am a little emotionally drained by writing it all down at once. I hope this clears up a few things and I hope that if you have questions or hear a rumor that you will ask me.
PS. The reason I wrote this blog now and not earlier is because someone decided to go through Minnesota public records and find out information about my divorce and show everyone. Otherwise this blog would have never been written. I don't want you pity vote if I got up in STARS. Honestly, I would rather you vote me out than keep me cause you felt sorry for me.
I think its really pathetic that people did certain things against you here that was SO personal. I wish you the BEST of luck with your home life & stars, even though I haven't been your BEST friend for your time here on tengaged. If you ever need to talk, you know I'm here for you<3.
I was getting MARRIED!
I never thought that the cute boy I met at the pool would be my husband. Or that we would have two kids. Or that I would have like my own house and shit. I feel like such a grown up sometimes!
We all know how crazy I am (really you guys don't know that half of it). My husband calms me down. He supports me in everything and anything that I want. When I wanted to stay at home with our kids, he worked two jobs to pay the bills. When I wanted to go back to school, he started making dinner at night so I could get extra homework done. He does the dishes because I hate doing them. AND no matter what you've heard, sex def gets better with time ;)
The one thing that has changed is our love. It's not the giddy silly love it used to be. It's constant and steady and sometimes boring lol but always there. Ten years is a long time .. but maybe I'll stay married for a few more.
the story doesnt seem to add up :(
maybe its just a publicity stunt?
eh usually if a relationship is abusive people try to make it work and sometimes it starts out well
ps. I wouldn't admit to anything involving this Dru kid because that is the kind of stuff that makes it so the kids go with daddy and not mommy... assuming this is all true
I really think you're insane genevere and need some mental help.
I'm glad you got a divorce because obviously you didn't care about the reletionship that much if you're still on this site.
You say 2 people on an online site told you to join stars today. But where are those people going to be 30 years from now when you're old, retired and always bitchy because your kids are too ashamed to call you their mother.
What you're doing really disgusts me.
You don't deserve your kids, in fact I hope they don't even show up to your funeral.
Shame on you Ginny, shame. You are a disgrace to every mother on this earth, when you are off doing god knows what on cam, have you ever thought how this will effect your childrens lives?
My deepest condolences to the children, as they cannot chose their mother or to be brought into this world.
+8 I am sooo sorry all the hate your getting on your blog, i know i have heard nothing but bad about you!! and am sorry for your situation you were stuck in i know many friends who have been in situations like this(minus the whole online scandal) and just deal b/c of their kids and i am happy you got out congrats!!!!and hope you can get your life on track for you and your kids!! good luck!!
You didnt think I'd understand this, however I was in Safe Harbor sexual crisis conseling for years due to my mom and dad, both being bipolar. My moms not diagnosed but its obvious she cant take the blame and accept who she is. My dad was arrested several times because of her stories and I had to have a restaining order againest him. While going to court to say oh my dad raped my mom, when none of it was true otherwise i wouldve been fucked because i had/have to live with her while my dads not around for her to abuse so she takes it out on me, attacking me with a hammer, leaving me to call the police while my Skype is on and the whole call is listening to me freak out and the police come in. Maybe you think I'm too young but fact is, i've been through alot more than you have, minus having kids. Especially this year. Who would've thought you wouldve had to bury your own dad and pay expenses? I have no respect for you what so ever anymore and I hope you realize the whole time I was truthful to you and I tried to help you and you didnt appreciate it. I'm done feeling pity on you.
I love this blog. And I can't beleive people are going that far over a fight that started online. I do think you should try and move on from Tengaged though, or at least not go on it as often. After all these troubles you're having you should spend time with your family
karma is a bitch right? just like you said to me about getting cancer except i'm not that cold hearted and wouldn't dream of saying it to you!
you caused this mess yourself, you could have prevented it by not doing what you did in the first place. I guess you know now to think before you act :S
DEATH BY POTATO PEELER AND SALT SHAKER. NOT YOU GINNY...THE POOR, COWARDLY EXCUSE FOR A FLESHBAG THAT POSTED THAT SHIT ON FACEBOOK TO RUIN SOMEONES LIFE. GINNY, WHAT YOU DID WITH DRU WAS NOT POLITICALLY CORRECT OR LEGAL, WHETHER REALIZED BY YOU AT THE TIME OR NOT, BUT YOU DIDN'T SET OUT TO RUIN SOMEONES LIFE. YOU MADE A MISTAKE THAT YOU'VE APOLOGIZED FOR TIME AND AGAIN. EVEN THOUGH IT MAY HAVE WORKED OUT FOR YOU, I STILL THINK THE PERPETRATOR SHOULD BE FERRETED OUT OF THEIR HIDEY-HOLE, AND HAVE A WHITE HOT BRAND PUSHED THROUGH THEIR BEADY LITTLE FUCKING HEAD BY WAY OF EYE SOCKET. GET A FUCKING LIFE YOU LOAD THAT SHOULD'VE BEEN A STAIN ON MOMMY'S BED. WHAT YOU DID WASN'T JUSTICE, AND IT WASN'T THE RIGHT THING TO DO...IF YOU REALLY WANTED TO "DO THE RIGHT THING TO TEACH SOMEONE A LESSON" (KEY WORDS BEING RIGHT THING), YOU SHOULDA FUCKING COWBOYED UP AND GONE TO THE PROPER AUTHORITIES. BUT YOU TOOK THE ROUTE MORE OFTEN TRAVELED AND DID THE UNDERHANDED THING. I'M SURE YOUR PARENTS WOULD BE PROUD OF YOU, AND THEIR PARENTS AS WELL. DOUCHEBAG. HERE'S HOPING YOU SLIP ON AN ICEPATCH IN FRONT OF AN ONCOMING BUS, YOU FUCKING COMPUTER ADDICTED PIECE OF SHIT COWARD. PEOPLE LIKE YOU GET THEIR ASSES HANDED TO THEM IN THE REAL WORLD, SO I UNDERSTAND YOUR FEAR OF LIVING ANYTHING RESEMBLING A NORMAL EXISTENCE. I CAN ALMOST HEAR YOUR WORDS NOW..."nobody messes with me and gets away with it. this bitch is gonna fucking regret the day she crossed me. i'm gonna totally fuck up her shit! i'm gonna use my amazing computer prowess to post pictures of her on her husbands Facebook account. Aren't you proud of me, world? Look what i can do!" FUCKING LOSER. HAVE A NICE DAY! :D
Congrats babe on having the strength to move on. I commend u greatly. Ignore the immature people who have nothing but hateful things to say. they are just bullys who obviously have nothing going on in their lives but to mess up yours. I believe the person that tried to ruin you also tried to ruin another gentleman's life on here aswell. It really is pathetic. Keep your head up and be the diva u know u are, and let the kids talk
also putting shit online to get a top blog is disgusting, if you really wnated an escape you wouldnt go to a online forum/ game site that causes drama to get away from your personal problems. Your disgusting.
Real people who have real problems dont put their dirty laundry on tengaged, sorry. SKype on the other hand is a different story
Have been watching you for several months and was interested to know how you have been abused. Does he beat you or just put you down? That is terrible. Sorry to hear. I know you posted this quite a while ago, but still had to comment.
