Please see the addition of a rule about blacklisting on our profile:
17. Blacklisting - If we feel that you need a temporary break from blogging (or tengaged needs a break from your blogs) for whatever reason, we will blacklist you. This means that your blogs will not be visible from the blogs page. We have reserve the right to do this for as long as we deem necessary. Reasons for blacklisting include - sexually explicit blogs, threatening to post porn, posting the same blog multiple times in a row, spewing nastiness toward tengaged users, moderation, or randomize, etc. http://www.tengaged.com/user/Tengaged_Moderation
Also, we would like to ask that you do not contact individual moderators about issues. They have been instructed to only give official responses via this account and will not answer your mail on their personal accounts. There are now 7 people with moderation access, and it gets confusing if you tell us "Eric told me this," "Noel told me that," etc. We need it all visible on one account. This also helps us avoid issues with those who impersonate moderators (which, for the record, is banworthy if it's done in a way that can harm the site).
We receive more than 60 messages per day, so your message will be answered in the order it's received. Do not mail us more than once. And do not curse at us and insult us when you're asking for our help. It may cause us to ignore your message entirely.
Thank you.
EDIT: Regarding contacting known mods: If you see porn or something that is dangerous to the tengaged public, you can contact the known mod. Just not for little things, like "why is this person banned?" "she's spamming in my game?" "he called me a ****************"