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1stAug 2, 2015 by Tengaged_Moderation
We are posting this to make you all aware of a rule addition that we have in the past enforced, yet it was not added to this account once we received access.  We will from this point forward no longer tolerate any disability shaming or harassment toward other users and this rule is now being added to our profile for your reference.

We would like to direct you to our profile, where we have made this addition. You can find it under "General Harassment" on our profile:

5A. Disability Shaming/Harassing users while personally attacking them about disabilities - This is one of the newer rules of Tengaged. This will be something that is taken seriously, and bans will be handed out because of it. Using the "R" word is not bannable, but disability shaming and going out of your way to attack somebody, telling them they have certain disabilities is now something that is considered a bannable offense and falls under general harassment of users. Any offenses will be taken seriously and bans will be handed out based off the users past, how many bans they have received, and the severity of the comments.

We believe this is a huge issue here on Tengaged. It's going to be difficult to judge true disability shaming, and since this falls under general harassment, not everything will be bannable. It will depend on the severity, but if you genuinely feel like a comment is offensive and should not be on Tengaged, please let us know, and we will do our best to make sure that the comments do not come back up, as long as they are reasonable.

Going forward, disability shaming will be a minimum 2 day ban and 7 day black list. (if it is blogged) If a user has many past bans (does not matter what sort of bans they are), longer bans will be handed out aswell as longer blacklists.

We do not want to look for a reason to ban the users of Tengaged, but this issue has come to our attention recently.

Thank you,


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Sent by Heath,Aug 2, 2015
Ty < 3 I'm very happy about this.
Sent by mathboy9,Aug 2, 2015
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Sent by Philip13,Aug 2, 2015
Sorry Tmod, this is dumb.
Sent by zachbbs,Aug 2, 2015
Actually happy about the rule. I'm almost willing to go on record and say this is the best you've tried to improve TG in the last couple months.
Sent by CheapCheep,Aug 2, 2015
Sent by jeff2k20,Aug 2, 2015
cheapcheep maybe because ur retarded
Sent by zachbbs,Aug 2, 2015
zachbbs Hun you're only making yourself look hopeless here.
Sent by CheapCheep,Aug 2, 2015
Cheapcheep maybe because you are retarded
Sent by zachbbs,Aug 2, 2015
Physical disabilities only, Tengaged_Moderation?
The r-word is used towards mental disabilities. So is it for both but the r-word is an acceptable term?
Sent by Yoshitomi,Aug 2, 2015
Yoshitomi it is both and the r word if used in a derogatory form could be considered disability shaming depending on the situation. This is why we said each case will be different and some hard to decipher.
Sent by Tengaged_Moderation,Aug 2, 2015
How is the r word not bannable!? That is clearly offensive especially to the ones who have dealt with being mentally handicapped
Sent by mercedes415,Aug 2, 2015
tbh the word retard should be considered within all this, mental disability is more commonly found on this site than physical imo.
Sent by Anas,Aug 2, 2015
This is retarded
Sent by Mrlincoln2u,Aug 2, 2015
please change the avatar back to the old one
Sent by coolnarwhal88,Aug 2, 2015
I got called inbred by one guy tengaged_Moderation does that count?
Sent by Jettsmith7,Aug 2, 2015
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Sent by WannaBeeFriends,Aug 2, 2015

you called me a dumb arrogant hipster who hates anything that's normal because I said I didn't like shelli from big brother and your entire rant was written in broken English. If you  are going to start stuff with people who aren't even trying to fight with you then honestly you should probably be satisfied if the meanest thing said in retaliation is inbred.

Besides that it is obvious that it wasn't meant to be a direct attack on any type of disability. My job is taking care of 5 guys with down syndrome. I don't do that shit. Youre just looking for a fight to be honest and my mildly tempered response apparently offended you or something.
Sent by burkett8975,Aug 2, 2015
OMG Mathboy9 TheJoe
Sent by KayleighWinz,Aug 2, 2015
I endorse this message
I am Nicki Minaj and I support this message
Sent by SomebodyAwesome,Aug 2, 2015
I 100% support this rule. It is disgusting that people go out of their way to use disabilities, that can not be helped, to hurt people.

Not just on tengaged, But even in real life it is a problem. Glad this is a rule!
Sent by Gaiaphagee,Aug 2, 2015
I am really happy about this rule!
Sent by AintItFun,Aug 2, 2015
i think the r-word should be bannable, but this is good too :)
Sent by AustinRules6969,Aug 2, 2015
Honestly most people on Tengaged are scared to do vlogs because they will be made fun of and this will help many like a rule should be made about peoples weight and etc.
Sent by ybbob,Aug 2, 2015
This is retarded
Sent by Dannny,Aug 2, 2015
This is actually a great idea I think banning people who say retarded is to extreme so good for not doing that but I have seen people say some awful things about autism and other disabilities so glad this is a rule now
Sent by ticofernandez,Aug 2, 2015
Tengaged_Moderation, shouldn't zachbbs receive a ban for being blatantly rude in a blog about this concern and calling CheapCheep the R word?
Sent by Jenna2010,Aug 2, 2015
i agree with this definitely but what if someone says something on Skype? if the victim copies and pastes it onto tengaged, who gets banned?
Sent by bunnycat,Aug 2, 2015

Cheapcheep is retarded
Sent by zachbbs,Aug 2, 2015
The R word is extremely offensive and should be bannable.
Sent by panda6785,Aug 2, 2015
zachbbs shut up, you are rude
Sent by Jenna2010,Aug 2, 2015
Does this mean people can stop harassing me bc I am a diabetic and also bc I said once that I was a mute so that I had an excuse not to go on calls?
Sent by disneygeek,Aug 2, 2015
Disneygeek ur a lia
Sent by zachbbs,Aug 3, 2015
zachbbs what am I lying about?
Sent by disneygeek,Aug 3, 2015
The R word is extremely offensive and should be bannable.
Sent by mahogany,Aug 3, 2015
The R word is extremely offensive and should be bannable.
Sent by Loopulle,Aug 3, 2015
The funniest thing about people calling each other "retards" is that most of them end up spelling it "retarted".

Nothing wrong with calling someone a retard if they spell like a retard.
Sent by ashleecutee,Aug 3, 2015
I love it!
Sent by Diva1,Aug 3, 2015
You should make one for sexism. Misogyny is huge on this site and as a woman it hurts
Sent by HotMolli,Aug 3, 2015
R word?

but yes a rule was needed
Sent by Oliviaxoxo,Aug 3, 2015
The R word is extremely offensive and should be bannable.
Sent by Catch_a_falling_star,Aug 3, 2015
Yeah because a few people were shaming me about my disability
Sent by Bentheman007,Aug 3, 2015
Jenna2010 I appreciate your concerns and standing up for me but honestly it just shows how pathetic zach really is so if he really wants to try and get under my skin he'll have to try to dig a little bit deeper than repeating the same statement five times over :)

Like honestly that's something a fifth grader would do.
Sent by CheapCheep,Aug 3, 2015
Using the "R" word is not bannable

Sent by Jacob_C,Aug 3, 2015
Much respect
Sent by AlyssaB,Aug 3, 2015
Thankyou :) Respect!
Sent by acyuta,Aug 3, 2015
that's gonna be really hard to enforce with like every case being borederline
Sent by ak73,Aug 3, 2015
It SHOULD be, though, Jacob_C.
Sent by Loopulle,Aug 3, 2015
What's the R word?
Sent by BigDude,Aug 3, 2015
It's been posted above a lot, BigDude, like in the comments here.
Sent by Loopulle,Aug 3, 2015
Question tengaged_moderation
Would I get banned for saying something like "dude are you retarded?" In what is clearly not a literal sense but rather an insulting question?
Sent by black0ut247,Aug 3, 2015
The R word is not offensive and should NOT be bannable.
Sent by DeathIsGreat,Aug 3, 2015
I love this rule. People are now starting to say, "the Autism is real" which is a DISGUSTING think to say.
Sent by OhNatalie,Aug 3, 2015
if someone who is 13 has to stoop so low that they need to make fun of someone's disability (probably someone like Halloween) then they are literally the scum of the earth
Sent by Tadd,Aug 3, 2015
I agree with this.
Sent by PrincessTeePee,Aug 3, 2015
>We do not want to look for a reason to ban the users of Tengaged

but that's exactly what ur doing?
Sent by MickJagger,Aug 3, 2015
So if someone mails me telling me I should go eat a cake and die will they be banned? They are basically making fun of me because I am a type 1 diabetic and eating a cake would be extremely bad to my health.
Sent by Blahblahblahblah,Aug 3, 2015
Loopulle didnt you just get back from a 3 day ban

why dont you learn to follow the rules we already have before arguing that we need new ones
Sent by Jacob_C,Aug 4, 2015
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Hey hey hey
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