tbh, love is genderless. you might think your gay/straight/bi but tbh, theyre just labels. i see myself as gay, but if i fall in love with a woman theres nothing i can do about that. as humans we try to put labels on everything. we are what we are. why do we have to know who we are so quickly. take life as it comes, putting labels on yourself is only restricting yourself.your not straight, your not gay, your not bi. your a person who still has to figure things out about yourself :).
I don't think you turn gay LOL
I kind of agree with David to a point
like love is kind of genderless
like it is totally possible for people to become attracted to a gender of someone they are usually not attracted to
but I do not think it is a sexuality switch
Take it from a gay man,
you do not choose your sexuality. You COULD be bisexual, but besides that, you can't go from gay to straight to gay again. And no, Antwane, a priest cannot summon some 'divine powers' to turn a gay man straight.
well, i guess you could be shot down by girls for a long time, get tired off it and then do dudes for a while, have a women finally be into you then give her the greatest lay of your life and then marry her and then continually fuck the hell out of her for the rest of your life :)
Yes, that be going back to being Straight. NOT bi? That's like saying if you were straight then went full on man that your bi,no you just went gay. Just like in this case someone changed to Straight.
Well I don't think you would be completely straight.... So yeh bi. But even right now with me being gay I wont count anything out as you have no idea who you are going to meet in life.
Of course it is! I mean, one stage you could be all happy and gay and the next minute you could stop taking drugs and become straight-edge, losing all the happiness you ever had!
Well seeing as 'being gay' is just an act people put on for attention, of course they could stop acting gay and become 'straight.'
*Casts my line*
Sent by Libertarian,Dec 28, 2010
Is he serious right now? I have many friends on this website that are gay and "being gay" isn't an "act put on for attention." You're acting asif marrying the same gender, kissing the same gender, having sex with the same gender, is all some "act" .. for attention. That's completely ridiculous.
I had a boyfriend who struggled with what he was for a LONG time, he had a high pitch voice and everyone always called him gay. He was ALSO super Christian, which posed a conflict to him. He finally came to himself and realized that he was bisexual. Being actually WITH him while he tried to figure it all out - it was NOT an act for attention at all, it's sort of unbelievable that you'd even think that..
My cousin is married to a man who was openly gay and became a Christian and decided that he is straight. I'm not sure if he is bisexual or if he really is straight, I just hope that this does not end badly for my cousin who is completely in love. :(
Sexuality is fluid and it can always be flowing and changing. If you feel that right NOW you are straight, and that's the label you want to put on it, then that's what is right for you. There is no black or white to sexuality, the label for what you are is up to you and how you feel.
