The problem with Yoshitomi is people don't see me as a person. It's become a reputation, an encyclopedia of pointless Tengaged knowledge, a not-Moderator-but-probably-is.
My name is Henna. There is a person behind the avatar.
I may have an artificial lense in my eye and metal plates in my leg, but I'm not a robot. I'm a human.
I struggle to reach out and say hi to people because I overthink everything.
- What if they think I'm trying to use them?
- What if they try to use me?
- What if I offend them by saying something wrong?
I'm a flawed person. The reason I made Deaver all those years ago was to have an escape option and not be stuck with the Yoshitomi stigma that I'm responsible for.
Chill. You’re fine. I think more than anything you need to remember yourself that there is a disconnect between Yoshitomi and Henna. Once you really embrace that separation, you won’t worry about what others think about the differentiation.
You're great as Henna, you're great as Yoshitomi and you were clearly great as Look_Out_Behind_You! ;D You're not all separate things, you're all the same silly yet intelligent and amazing person. Making mistakes and being flawed doesn't take away from you being that person, that's what makes you human. Making mistakes is awesome, it gives to room to grown and learn about yourself. So don't be afraid to be yourself, being perfect 24/7 is tiring as well as boring xD We don't want you to be responsible or to be the tengaged poster-gal, just do whatever makes you happy, Yoshitomi is only an icon because of the amazing, kind brain behind her, and that's Henna! Queen of the Pokemon and tengaged! You're deffo a robot btw
What Kristory said...Separating personal from character works wonders but isnt always the easiest...Everything I have learned about you over the years (granted its little bits) is awesome...
LOL @ "I may have an artificial lense in my eye and metal plates in my leg, but I'm not a robot. I'm a human". I, being 75937563748, am a robot, don't act like its a bad thing. ;)
You're respected here, but don't overthink your interactions. I'm sure on this website ppl don't really use anybody, except maybe for gifts, but I don't think anybody would use you for that :)
eyoomarcus I think you’re the only person tripping about me saying “chill.” It wasn’t meant to be rude, it was meant to mean calm down and don’t worry about it! I was also just providing my insight on the situation.