anas I wish I had a sense of humor. People try to joke with me and I find it so unfunny when I know you're trying to make me laugh. Most jokes are so predictable I feel like I've heard it all and I'm tired of fake laughing
Lol that’s not your fault - I honestly can’t do the fake crap either. Literally my supervisor makes jokes and I stare / smile blankly while my colleagues are like ROFLMAO and i’m like this ain’t funny.... as nice as my supervisor is i can’t feign interest
I can’t be fake nice either lol. Like I know a lot of people think I am on this site but I just like to treat others the way I’d want to be treated + that, combined with me being an over thinker, leads me to not suck up to people / not say sweet fake things. I may just keep my mouth shut about things I dislike but I never compliment anyone fakely. However it leads to a lot of people considering some of my inconsiderate friends to be the “nicest ever” and me to be “mean” (like a good mean - they still like me / know I won’t BS / am trustworthy) but when it comes to short first impressions, I can hold my own but dont compare to the “fake” people. I literally called out one of my “nice” best friends on how she just pretends to agree with things when she has no idea wtf we’re talking about and she was like “omg what” and everyone was like “holy shit ur right”. I still love her but it’s kinda lame imo
Timster YEAH FOR SURE - I grew up with a sister who is freaking smart af and hilarious so I KNOW what’s funny and what isn’t!! You’re definitely top notch as far as humor goes imo honestly - I guess we both need to work on pretending to be somewhat interested but I don’t think it should hold us back too much!!
Timster I get the feeling, i have this natural habit to laugh at everything even if I don’t particularly find it funny. I think you just got to ease up and just filter the noise/ small talk and get on with it, take it one ear and out the other. Think it’s great you’re being self reflective though
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