Sit up at night and think of the weird sexual shit old people used to tell us when we were kids, or is that just me?
I remember older dudes telling me to do sexual things to girls in the neighborhood, and I honestly think this shit was traumatic.
Putting this out there, If you're an adult, it's inappropriate to talk about sexual shit with kids unless you're teaching your own children and even then it's something that needs to be taken seriously.
I think part of the reason I'm asexual, is because of creepy ass men who were trying to relive their pedophilic sexual fantasies through me, and it's really fucking frustrating, because I could have a family and children, but I'm not sexually attracted to anyone, because I was repulsed by sex as a child, because I had a bad set of role models at that stage in my life.
Omg wtf that sounds horrible. Either you knew some really weird men or maybe i’m not aware this stuff is said to all guys?? But i dont think anyone talked to my younger brother that way (like adults i mean).
People are so effing weird. Like if it’s so natural to be attracted to others just let it happen and only teach kids to be respectful to others. Idek why anyone needs to say that stuff.
Kindred7 I had some weird people in my life, especially after my dad died. My sister had a perverted husband, and I honestly am starting to think a lot of my issues are because of his involvement in my life. In fact, I started using Tengaged as a place to escape him in the later years, luckily he cheated on my sister and she remarried to an actual decent human being.
However, I've found out recently that this is quite common, and I have also been having issues lately over it resurfacing.
