how thin my skin was for a long time where i'd let anything break my spirit whenever i had shit done and said to me directly or indirectly that came from a stranger or even a loved one bc it hurts the most.
You get used to it, you create your own shield and after a while you feel like you've heard it all before to a point these actions and words can no longer be used against you. You can't control bad behavior from others but you surely can control how you react to them.
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But even when you remove yourself from the picture, how do you deal with the ones that obsessively stalk you and try to ruin games and friendships
Me2013 the filter feature is available if you dont want interaction and be flattered youre given any type of attention by literally doing nothing but other than that the less you acknowledge them, the more they do, and the latter isnt your problem at all. You can keep it that way until you feel they have good intentions
@shiz thanks for the advice, believe it or not I use the filter feature, but it seems to get people all hot under the collar so then they move onto blogging and sending pm's to your friends and joining games you are in and just snowballs from there. Anyway the only person in this world we can control is our-self in the end.
