This is referring to https://tengaged.com/blog/Marlakk/9379763/it-has-come-attention
Judging by the comments I understand that comments I have made, although not predatory yet in a joking matter are not initiated by me as they have been perceived.
1. I have never initiated sexual comments to Bryan - the messages that he has sent me are endless and annoying that I replied as a whatever.
2. I have never had personal conversations to even know he was underage.
3. If my comments to Bryan are inappropriate are his to me not the same?
I am confused because I feel as if Eilish is playing his side of the story while hiding his own comments.
Yes I take responsibility for my jokingly comments to him, No I did not know he was underage.
Would I do it again? Absolutely not, however, he should not be playing a victim in this situation.
koolness234 In regards to your comment on my blog, I'll agree I crossed the line, yes my comments are wrong, in all honestly I thought Bryan was a friend and we were always talking in a joking matter. I never initiate sexual comments to him mine are in response to give him what he wants to hear
Eilish asks me if I love him all the time.
My response is always simply, “youre my friend Bryan.”
It’s not that difficult to not engage with that.
If he takes it further stop responding and remove him.
This is on you and you alone. He is a minor. There’s no excuse and for you to continue victim shame blogging him because you know he’s disliked is kinda vile.
This should not exonerate you to any sane person.
And to anyone reading this comment, yes I’m upset, and I considered Marla someone I was on good terms with.
aquamarine I will agree, I take blame for my comments. I am not victim shame blogging him, I am responding with my side of the story. He is allowed to spread accusations about me I can freely express in response that he is not a victim in this situation as much as he says he is.
You’re literally saying he’s not a victim. I’m getting these top blogs it sets a precedent that pedophilia is decided in the court of public opinion, and that if you are abused by a more popular user, you shouldn’t say anything about it.
You knew better than to reply to a child’s advances.
Full stop.
If he was messaging you too much and annoying you, you should have responded and asked him politely to leave you alone. Playing along with the content does not seem like the proper response. It's also a good idea to find out a person's age before engaging in that type of conversation with them.
Bryan may be far from perfect, but the fact that your response to this is to try to "expose" him instead of taking ownership and apologizing is a problem.
cheritaisdelicious You're right except I'm not trying to expose him, I'm simply giving the other side of the story because right now there is only one side.
