I had someone recently say that I was being immature because I was losing it over the way they were behaving. I have come up with the right answer to that statement.
Asshole, let me say this here and now and I'll TRY to use small words so you understand what I'm saying.
I don't lose it because I'm immature. I lose it because I CARE what others do to me and I trust that if I react enough, AND learn my lessons, I won't ever have to go thru this again.
So the bottom line is - I care enough about me to be emotional if someone mistreats me. On the other hand, you are callous. I trust that MY way is better for this planet then yours. I'd rather love my life and defend it, then act like I don't care.
