I really don't keep up with this site anymore but after contacting my ex-boyfriends and empathizing with my rapist, I'll finally give in to his pleas for attention.
I really didn't want to share this with this website but around a month ago I was raped. It was the worst day of my life.
To which, one of my closest friends at the time responded by saying this
So let me clarify it to you Kelly2722 because it seems like you're having trouble understanding the concept of consent. Consent can be withdrawn. If I give someone consent, and then I later express that I'm uncomfortable in continuing and wanted to leave, then I had withdrawn consent. It isn't a matter of good sex or bad sex, it's a matter of my body being violated by a man almost twice my age because when I withdrew consent, his response was to forcefully shove his dick down my throat.
You were the first person that I had told about the incident because you were my emotional support back then, when I had nobody to talk to because I was closetted to my friends and family in real life. And more likely than not, had I not told you about it, we might still be friends to this day. But after everything people said about you, I don't hold it past you to mock and obsess over the fact that somebody was raped.
Thank you to the people who were there for me when I needed support. I'm not interested in dealing with you anymore. So with all due respect, please leave me alone DJ.
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Sorry this happened to you, Dal. Kelly I adore you but I have to echo him here.. consent can be withdrawn at any point! If he consented at the beginning but decided he wanted to stop and the man wouldn’t adhere to that, that is in fact rape.
This isn’t your fault, Dallas. But please be careful in the future. Grindr is a risky game.
I'm sorry this happened to you. Consent can be withdrawn at any point up to and during the act, which you seem to have done before the incident and when you tried pulling away. I'm sorry they didn't understand that
This makes me so fucking mad dallas. Mad at the fact u had to go thru this and mad at the fact this piece of shit would say that to u after something so traumatic that happened to you. You deserve so much better than this
This just like people who say that women ask to be raped because they dress a certain way and that they are “asking for it because they are getting the attention of men”
I’m soo sorry this happened to you. You did what you needed to do by pulling your consent and you should never be judged or proven wrong by making a decision to get you out of an uncomfortable situation.
Ouch. That's really cruel of a "friend"to day to you.... Fuck fake friends!! Sorry this happened to you I've had similar experiences so if you ever need a REAL friend to talk to I am here for you Akeria 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
I’m so sorry this happened to you :(. It’s so awful how often people are just treated like trash and I’m sorry you had to experience that. If everyone understood consent what a world it would be.
I'm sorry you went through this dallas, I think ive told you my past before so if you need to chat please hmu.
My opinion on kelly I'll keep because I don't want to spread more negativity. And it isn't a pleasant one so.
ive never liked Kelly2722 always seen her for what she was
sorry this happened to you Notnicky333 you were just like her you were friends with her and you bullied with her and now your acting like you did nothing
This isn’t your fault, Dallas. But please be careful in the future. Grindr is a risky game.