I was like born a he/him. We had a deep conversation, his response was very respectful and everything. Mind you we just started talking like 2-3 weeks ago, I just say "my man" cause once we start talking you my man period, anywho.
He says he didn't have any clue and it's a lot for him to process but how beautiful i am blah blah blah. His only problem is his family being judgmental cause he said they're small minded which is very on brand with most black households. He's a sweetheart though. I like him a lot like everything about him is what I love in a man.
He's fit, very handsome! he's lightskinned though i typically like my men dark, he rides motorcycles, career-orientated, tatted, Jamaican (he has an anacondaaaa between his legs girl) we're both virgos, we share a lot of the same mindsets and opinions. he listens and understands me. and he paid to get my nails and feet did. he's just 10/10 .
Idk like he's in his head right now because he never talked or dated a trans girl before. we been mutual Instagram followers for a while but im not as open on my social media about my transition so he wouldn't have known prior to messaging me.
I told him to really think on it and consider how he feel and im going to respect whatever he decides to do. Rather we remain friends or pursue our relationship further, his comfort is important. but lets hope he don't friendzone me cause his dick too big to be doing all that! :(
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this is stressful im literally experiencing my own love island
Regardless, im happy he responded in a way that wasn't violent or demeaning. If he stays around, he's probably a keeper! If not, he's probably going to be great as a friend.
brookie_cookie valid question tbh, I think being that he has a strong relationship with his dad and his dad is like old school I guess it's a level of fear there if he ever found out
