So here is the story:
I am 16 yrs old btw. So I was at someones sweet 16.. and this girl who I didn't know too well started talking to me over the dislike of the same person. So the whole group of friends sat in the hot tub together, and I was next to this girl. I had my hand on the little empty spot in between of us on the seat. She moved her hand next to mine on purpose and her finger touched mine. Then she just moved her finger up and down against mine. Being nice I thought it was kind of cute so I did it back. Then two of our fingers touched and I knew it wasnt an accident. So we all moved to the fire pit and we sat next to each other again. I had my hand on my armrest and so did she and the same thing happened, except quicker and her hand was over mine. Then we moved to the driveway to watch fireworks and we were just legit holding hands. Interlocked fingers and everything. That has never happened to me before. I was so nervous lol. I never thought I could ever hold a girl's hand in one night.
Here is the twist: While I was holding her hand, whenever someone came really close to us, especially our friends, she would let go. Some of my friends talk about how they dont like her too well. I don't know why. I put two together and figured out that is why she let go. I quickly told one of my friends there before she left about what happened, and all she said was "Don't do it." And she left. I took it into much consideration.
In conclusion:
I am stuck with a difficult decision. I have worked so hard over the past year to get some friends because I never really had that many, and it has worked. I know they love me. I feel like if I start dating this girl, they wouldn't like me anymore.
On the other hand, I feel like this is a really nice girl, and I have never had this happen to me. I tried so many times with other girls that are people that my friends like and I fail miserably. But of course the one girl that they dont like, is the one that has potential in an actual relationship. Of course.. I just don't want to miss out, yet I don't know if she is just playing me.
HELP!!
What kinda shit friends do you have LOL that there gonna leave you if you start dating a girl.
What I recommend though is if you do date her don't be lovestruck and be with her 24/7, had so many friends like that who always hung out with there gf and forgot about me and once th relationship ended they came crawling back to me and I'm like please fuck off xD
David talk to them about it all and see what they feel about you dating her but still wanting to keep them as friends. i think the best advice is to be honest and upfront with them :) hope this helped.
Bro, if your friends are true friends they will stick with you forsure they might not like her but they wont bail on you. just make sure you keep time for your friends Bros before Hoes. Also if your down for her go for it!!!
