Since everyone wants to give their input on myself and Cody joining stars I figured I’ll give mine. I joined this stars because honestly yesterday was just a really shitty day, yes it had good aspects in terms of the AMAZING support I received from some family members, my boyfriend and a HUGE amount of tengaged users, but it also had many cons that literally tore my heart into pieces which I also included. I had even told a few friends this morning I didn’t think I was joining because I was very overwhelmed still, but ultimately I ended up joining because I saw people I really enjoy talking to, and on top of that friends wanted me to. I also joined because stars is a game that requires a LOT of attention, and I needed my headspace elsewhere. I would never go to the extent of using my identity as a trans woman to receive support in a game that won’t ever benefit me in reality. This website has been a huge help in terms of allowing me to be myself and honestly so many people on here have inspired me to not be scared to accept who I am and to SHARE IT with everyone else. If you do not like me that is absolutely fine, I will not lose sleep I can assure you that, however do not ever go to the extent of saying I would use my identity for a few votes in a damn game, that is crossing a line that should not EVER be crossed.
Now regarding Cody, he is a VERY close friend of mine, and for people to accuse him of “faking” the situation in which he blogged about yesterday and today for stars support as well is being disgusting. He has shared so much with me and other close friends that he has on here and I can guarantee you he would never, could never, and will never do anything of that kind of sort to receive popularity. Having to have many nights crying, and being fearful of something terrible happening to your family member due to their health is HEART BREAKING and should not be wished upon anyone let alone invalidated and turned into an accusation.
Some of you really do genuinely lack all forms of empathy and I really hope that one day you wake up and are truly happy with yourselves, because it is quite clear that you just aren’t pleased with your own life and you are reflecting that onto others in a very harmful way.
To everyone who knows me, loves me and supports me as a human being, you know I’ve been talking to many friends and my therapist regarding my identity and my fear of expressing myself publicly as a trans woman. I finally felt inner peace yesterday and decided it was the day I get to speak my truth and stop living my life as someone I am not.
Thanks for whoever read all this and to the people who KNOW this is about them, my mails are always open and if you’re having a rough day and are deciding to project that onto Cody and myself, I will still gladly talk to you and try and give you the most comfort and clarity I can because you’re a human fucking being that deserves to know you matter.
Have a nice night everyone.
Comments
No one is accusing him of faking anything. People are accusing him of using it for clout.
zeptis that is still very damaging mentally. Imagine what he had been worrying about for days upon days regarding his brother just for people to turn it around and say he was using it for support? Come on now that’s ridiculous and heart breaking.
