So if i don't date a gay man because I am straight am I a homophobe? I don't understand how it is racist because you don't want to date a particular race. I don't get the logic in that at all
It's racist due to your phrasing. Saying "i dont want to date a particular race" sounds like race is your determining factor on who you date. You can say "i dont date people i dont find attractive" and leave it at that.
But yout reasoning explains why. If you're like 'I would never date a guy, I'm only attracted to women because of X Y Z (pussy, tits whatever) that's cool.
If you're like 'I'm not a fag, I'd die before I'd ever date a gay guy' you're a homophobe because you're not saying stating a preference, you're actively avoiding gays.
Just don't be an asshole, fuck who you like and don't hate on those you don't. Simple as that.
The thing about people always spewing that something is racist is because black people never stop feeling oppressed. Most of the time they honestly oppress themselves. They feel bad about not comparing to white people. W/ equality, w/ looks, w/ education... They realize white people are generally more attractive & for people to say they aren’t attracted to black people, they just feel insecure & inferior. It’s a preference it doesn’t mean I’m hating on black people because I don’t want to date or fuck them
Anas This niggah really just said it’s homophobic for someone who doesn’t fuck men to say they’d rather die first....
Ok actually I kinda see your point lol cos they’re not only dramatic but also lying to themselves lol. Homophobic people definitely say this but it isn’t homophobic lol
You’re comparing apples and oranges. Sexuality and racism are two entirely different things. Obviously if you’re heterosexual you’re not going to be attracted to another male. Not because you’re homophobic but rather because there is no attraction since well you’re attracted to the opposite gender so obviously a relationship would never blossom from that.
But you choosing a particular race among those you are attracted to can be racist but who’s really to say. Everyone has their preference and only that person knows why they choose a particular race to date. Overall, the comparison you made is kinda dipsy of you. Glad I can clarify.
Skyler_TW if you like women and want to fuck women, your opinion on men should be just neutral. Only insecure straight guys trash talk gay men, if you know what you're into you shouldn't care less tbh.
Even if gay man finds you attractive, take it as a compliment, say you're not into men and move on. Simple.