is when your mom AND your dad are trying to make plans to see you on the exact same day forcing you to choose sides and you don't want to upset either of them or make either of them feel as though you are favoring one over the other by not choosing to spend it with them and both of them are unwilling to change the day
idk......... it's just tough and i still don't know what to do ๐ฅบ๐
