Things would be better, for everyone. There'd be no personal jokes or personal attacks against individuals about things they deal with in Real Life.
Now, before anyone from the Cheeto Brigade starts throwing the "Hypocrite Card", let me just say, I have made several personal attacks in the past, BUT never about something someone is personally dealing with.
So, bottomline. Only tell friends and those you are close to about what's going on in your life outside Tengaged. I mean let's face it, it's the internet, what else do you think would happen? Any mark behind a keyboard can say whatever they want.