what do yāall think? my bf of 6 years broke up with me in june, and in july he told me he was over me and wasnāt in love with me anymore and then in the fall he blocked me on everything.
in december he begins calling me up regularly from unknown numbers to catch up (despite telling me he didnāt wanna talk anymore) but continues telling me how he doesnāt think weāre meant to be together
last night he calls me up again telling me that heās trying to reach out to me less because even though he doesnāt have any romantic feelings for me right now, if he keeps talking to me he will catch feelings and that the best thing for us isnāt for him to fall in love with me again
i donāt speak guy, someone decode for me. also i DO NOT want to be with him so donāt worry about that
He just wants to use you for a quick ego boost but heās keeping a safeguard and easy out by repeatedly saying āwe arenāt meant to be together.ā Itās his way of providing himself a safe way to leave again.
It sounds like heās just trying to make sure you become/stay infatuated with him. Iāve met a lot of people who literally just want to keep some people around them bc they think they can have power / control over them + want the attention etc. he seems weird af and you should probably not respond to him - heās just wasting your time and keeping you in his life as an āoptionā, and you deserve better than that
