i’m not the kind of person who has room in my heart for grudges, i am a very forgiving person and try to make amends with people who wronged me if they show growth in the time i haven’t known them for.
joe, u have admitted to everything right here.
I turned 21 months following that. At the time her and I were fllrty with each other and we both knew our boundaries. I’d get carried away constantly as you can tell. She was 4 months away from becoming 18. Everyone knew it was a joke and no one saw it differently.. at least from my perspective.
Sent by Bigbobbyschmitt,Apr 24, 2024
yk very well it was not that simple and that our friendship took place over the course of several years before that moment in that screenshot. but let’s pretend it WAS as simple as innocent miscommunications. if u can recognize that ur behaviour was wrong then just…apologize? u acted inappropriately with a minor, own that, but then want to villainize me? this is the first account that i’ve even seen u own up to anything at all, every previous interaction we’ve had since ur ban has been blaming me and making lies up to free ur reputation. why not just say “i did this, it was wrong, leah has a right to be upset about what i did bc i understand it from her perspective but i want her to know i didn’t mean it like that and deeply regret it” if u could convince me of that i would forgive u and so would others.
this just shows ur lack of personal growth. our age gap was deeply problematic at the time. as we continue to age it is less so. but when we met when i was 14 and u turning 18, there is a big power dynamic there and a big maturity difference. i don’t understand why u don’t leave the site, if u have changed, leave this place behind and start a new life that isn’t tied to ur mistakes. why do u care what these people think? they aren’t real people in ur life, they are avatars on a screen. the only thing real here is the effect that ur actions had on me as a young teenager and how it’s influenced my life now
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heard. FWIW I mailed. You don’t need to read it or reply but it’s there and as sincere as I can be
