@Jacob
Hey man! Thanks I appreciate the compliments haha :) I definitely thought you were a great player to brotha! :D
I completely understand if you don't respect self votes. As someone who's hosted and who's played many group games, I completely understand the frustration. I just feel like that one round nothing was going to change whether I voted or not because I was going to vote for Eli to had I not gotten so busy with life. Apologies if that isn't a satisfying answer but that's the honest answer on my end. Besides self voting, I believe I played an overall winning game. For example, even when I got targeted multiple times, I survived. Not because I had gone invisible, but, because I had the social connections which I think is the key difference between Cai and I.
When it comes to controlling things in the game, I really believe I controlled the rounds right after Dana was voted out. I took the position of alpha male and I was really rallying the votes every round. With your round I know it can be debated forever who took it but from my perspective, it was me. To be more specific, I believe I had much more influence on Cai and Garrett than Yander did for your vote which is why I take more of a credit for it.