Now that I think about it.. I only used it to get money off of guys in exchange for sex. Completely disregarding the ones who wanted a simple coffee date, even if they met my standards.
I most definitely missed out on a good boyfriend :( oh well we live and we learn, next time I hit the big smoke after this all blows over I'm taking Devin Dorbolo up on that coffee date then we can see what happens from there.