When you invested 8 1/2 years with that person (my whole 20s) isn’t bad? Do I miss him yes I’m real and can admit that. Do I want to be with him NO. It’ll never work. But we had a dog together and pretty much our families were a huge part of both our lives.
Just sucks on the other end the person is spiteful & it can’t be handled adult like. Am I wrong for just checking in? I just care for him and want him to be happy even if he’s with someone even better happy for him! Life moves on, time helped me get over the relationship and I have moved on FINALLY. I just have a heart.