3 fathers in my life,
My bio dad who's a pos pedo and deserves to rot in hell(yes he's dead)
My adopted dad who was an alcoholic and beat my mother(adopted) and cared more about his alcohol than seeing his kids after they divorced (he is also gone now)
And my Step dad who when I was 16 and in HS and he was dating my mom sent me a dozen roses to school and my dad didn't even call me on my birthday. My step dad was the only real father figure in my life but after I was out of the house we just never really talked.
So all that to say dads aren't always the dad who donated sperm or who was there for most of ur life(kinda sorta) and sometimes it's the person who u wouldn't expect at all that comes into ur life later in life.
