Has inserted herself into an abusive relationship. I say inserted because she's had plenty of chances to get away or tell someone. I've seen him grab her in inappropriate ways and it's not okay. I don't doubt that he will beat her up when no one is around to see and I know that I can't be there for her all the time and my mother has forbidden me from speaking to him, even to defend my friend. I just hope that she starts to realize that i'm only trying to help her when i tell her that he sucks as a person. I want her to come to realization before things get really bad.But she's so crippled by her desire for attention that i really doubt it. But you can't help a person who doesn't want to be helped i guess