the best thing i ever heard was my friend (we'll call her shaniqua) describing the feelings for her husband (we'll call him matt). she said she's matt-sexual, meaning she's really only cares for him, nothing else matters.
i honestly think we're all this way once we find our soul mate. doesn't matter if it's gay, straight, inbetween, or nowhere in that spectrum of sexuality. we all want to be "matt-sexual" but for whoever our own personal "matt" is.
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interesting theory, it's a different perspective and i think if more people thought like this, everyone would be a lot happier tbh
