Something I don't understand, why do people get jealous when there friends of the opposite sex have relationships, go on dates or just get laid really. It doesn't make sense. And it's not even the fact that it's a big jealousy issue, when your single, But why is it when people are in relationships they get overly jealous when there "guy friends" or "chick friends" are with someone else/random lays/anything else. Please someone explain it to me! I don't get it!
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its the 'i want what you got' catch22 .
you got a new girlfriend? ... i sure wish i had one.
you got laid last night ? ... i need to get laid .
you got a new car ? ... im still driving the same piece of crap i bought 5th hand back in high school.
you saw the new (fill in the blank) movie , tv show, concert ? ... god my lifes boring.
you know what im saying?
this very thing has been the base reason for wars, for fear, for lust , countless deaths, love and yes, birth .
we (as human being) tend to strive for what we dont have anyway ... some people just let it effect them too much when they see someone they know getting things , wanted or not.
the human condition .
it is so annoying I guess I can relate to it coz Ive actually went through that with my 2 male friends. As soon as I got in a relationship they fought with me and tried to break us up etc
I guess its the tought of someone replacing them or being closer to you
Thanks Ashy.
I have been with my man for 13 and a half months. And my one friend in particular is sleeping with this one very trash girl I don't like her and every time she's around we fight like cats and dogs.
I guess I mean you've been close and at the end of the day you just want the best for him and he wants the best for you. You see this girl as trashy so you know shes bad for him and you want to say it to him but you don't want to upset him! I can completely relate to it...the question is though will anyone ever really match up to your high standards for him?
Yes. He's my little brother we have been best friends for 8 years. I always have something to say about his girlfriends but i mean this girl is TRASHY! I get i mean they are just using each other for that reason. bu it annoys me to see someone i care about involved with someone who will end up screwing with his head.
its the 'i want what you got' catch22 .
you got a new girlfriend? ... i sure wish i had one.
you got laid last night ? ... i need to get laid .
you got a new car ? ... im still driving the same piece of crap i bought 5th hand back in high school.
you saw the new (fill in the blank) movie , tv show, concert ? ... god my lifes boring.
you know what im saying?
this very thing has been the base reason for wars, for fear, for lust , countless deaths, love and yes, birth .
we (as human being) tend to strive for what we dont have anyway ... some people just let it effect them too much when they see someone they know getting things , wanted or not.
the human condition .