Well in the past I have had trust issues with certain people and in relationships. I feel like I could trust the person and they go around and use everything I tell them against me. It's just hard to now open up and trust people. I really want to, but I know how many people have turned their backs on me and stabbed me in the back. I only open up once I trust them and that's very hard for me to do...
Sometimes it can be hard to let people in. Just take your time and get to know people first. Take baby steps. You can't go through life trusting everyone but to also go through it trusting no one is missing out on a lot of missed opportunites to ask for help/support in difficult situations. Keep your head up and always remember True friends will be there for you in both the high and low points of your life :P
You should always trust...just not in everyone...i don't know how old you are, but as you get older, it becomes easier to see who you should put trust in, as opposed to whom to just smile and nod at. not everyone will abuse your trust...it seems like you've had a bad run of it so far, so brighter days HAVE to be ahead of you! :D +'d!
Trust is definitely a hard thing to give sometimes. i know after being hurt so much it can be difficult to make yourself vulnerable again. You should know that you are SO not alone. Everyone deals with this from time to time. I always ask myself if the person in question is worth the risk because sometimes holding back can be more painful than taking the chance and trusting. You'll never experience the full joy of another person without letting them inside. I know it's tough, but you just have to gauge whether or not the person is worth it. I also think the key is trusting yourself to be able to deal with whatever will happen. You are a strong person, and it's important to believe in yourself to be able to get through whatever betrayal you may experience. Just don't shut yourself off from everyone because that is no way to live at all <3.
I always have hated trust.. its like~ putting the wight of urself on someone else's shoulders, and hoping for the best, that they wont let you down. And I've definately been let down a lot.. so yeah, trust sucks.. but you just gotta keep on trying to find someone thats genuine and that wont let you down, and soon, you will have a rly good friend!(:
