I dont even have a hard opinion on it tbh. I just refer to people as they wish to be referred to and it keeps the peace. I have a lovely they/them irl friend who is very kind and helpful, and for that reason alone, I just respect them.
Tbh I don't mind using They/Them if they're clear but I've had some ppl non-binary yell at me for using they/them the next time when they want to be called she on that day ... that's where my issue comes.
brayden_ motherfucker you just sent me on a side quest to figure out whomst the fuck tash sultana is LMAO , idk to me though saying "they are a musician " doesn't really sound that weird? Like I guess that's just been used interchangeably with she /he him and /her around me since I was a child so it seems like such a none issue to me ygm?