Why do people hold onto grudges/hate? All you are doing is creating an intense, negative feeling about someone--or something. Eventually, you may even let it consume you...
Then, you might actually act upon one--or some of those deep, negative thoughts that cause about 0.03 seconds of personal relief. You probably don't even know what you just did to the other person--or thing afterwards. Selfish acts cause people to think only about themselves.
Did it ever occur to you to try and communicate with that person--or about that thing which you allowed to let it take over you in a possessive and negative way? Probably not. If you say you did, you probably just presumed the outcome beforehand, clouding your mind from the actual answer.
That is how we, as an individual, allow ourselves to create such dangerous acts. Please, think before you do. We are all lost and broken in some way; we are all different.
When you say negative things about someone--or something, you are reflecting how you truly feel inside about that; insecurity/jealousy. There is no need to pin blame on others because you feel guilty inside. No one and nothing is perfect; what makes you think that you are?
