i would dedicate the time and finances to make sure my grandchildren are secure in their education. i'd also invite the entire family (bi)weekly to my cottage out in the country for a nice, home-cooked meal after we sit out on the porch and share laughs as we listen to the radio. i'd like to be the glue of my family. i want people to say "that's mom-mom ashanti" and reflect on how much i do for the family at such an old age. when i die, i'd love for the church my service will be held to be overflowing. i wish to be cremated and spread across the garden adjacent my cottage and flourish alongside the flowers to indicate that while i may be gone, i'm still here and am looking over my babies.
