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Tengaged Relationships.... Really?

Jun 19, 2014 by JonathonRoyse
imageRelationships are a very intimate bond between two people. When someone feels that feeling of attraction towards another, it really is a strong thing. Not only does it require that mutual attraction, but it requires an insane amount of dedication both emotionally and physically. In person, relationships are very complex, but long distance can be even more difficult. Especially if you haven't met that person face to face. Not only do you both lack the real physical attraction to each other that a normal relationship has, you lack the understanding of each other, as well as the ability to truly get to know one another.

     I know, who am I to make such a bold assumption? Well, it's not an assumption, it's truth. Forming a "Relationship" with someone over the internet, with someone whom you'll possibly never meet, has to be one of the most ridiculous things I have ever seen/heard. When you're on the internet, you can be whomever you please, personality wise. I know for a fact that almost everyone on here is completely different towards their family and "in-person friends". How do I know this? Because everyone acts differently in front of their "in-person friends"! You go online, to a social media website that is all about popularity and being "Cool", anyone can easily choose to have an alter-ego, and they do.

     A relationship requires to get to know someone both mentally and physically. You're already completely missing out on half of what requires a relationship to work. "But we can still get to know one another!" Yes, that's true to an extent; However, I know the majority of the time, the truth is far from what is being discussed between to people forming a "Tengaged Relationship"!

     Guys, it's just not logical, or even remotely sane, to form one. I am really worried about a lot of people and what they're doing with their lives on here! I mean some of these people are in their 20's for crying out loud, yet maintain the mentality of a 14 year old. Guys, playing a game is fine! Being on Tengaged is fine! Making friends is fine! But all of this make believe fairy-tale nonsense needs to come to an end. Everyone really needs to see that you can have a perfectly fine life outside of this website. All of the drama, all of the overreacting... Needs to stop. It's a game people. This isn't real life, and if you think it is... When you get out into the real world, I really hope you make it out alive. It really is not healthy to be on here as much as some of you are. I mean, really. I am shocked you friends and family haven't already said something!

     Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read this. Something that has been annoying me lately and I needed to confront the situation. I am sorry if some may have gotten offended by this, but it needs to be addressed. Issues like this are far too severe to be taken lightly. Besides, all the denial, needs to be destroyed.

Comments

potatosalad is obsessed with them
Sent by Carsonl,Jun 19, 2014
Me and lexi0103 got virtually married.
Sent by PotatoSalad,Jun 19, 2014
No one has time to read all that.
Sent by lexi0103,Jun 19, 2014
Yeah PotatoSalad and I are virtually married so eff off.
Sent by lexi0103,Jun 19, 2014
tl;dr ?
Sent by Balloons,Jun 19, 2014

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