But not every gay guy on here wants to see the F word thrown around on here. The fact that someone who doesn’t identify as gay has that word in a top blog, and no one finds it problematic because of who is saying it, is problematic in itself. Tengaged chooses very specifically who they want to cancel and who they do not. As a gay man I really find it offensive when it is used, because of the way that word has been thrown around in my life. But yes, let’s pretend we all care about ending homophobic language but continue to use it in a “joking” way.
