So back in May before I met up with Nik and Blake, my me and my best friend got in a falling out. When I got down to her beach house, she tried to make my schedule for me with them like telling me what time we should get there and leave, stuff we should do, etc. Then on the day of the meetup the time got pushed back an hour, so when I told her that she was like, “Oh dang I could go for my walk” (her parents pay her $20 a day to walk her dog 5 miles). But I said that’s fine do that so we can try and get out of here on time. She showers beforehand and while she’s taking like 5 min. to put her shoes on since she was scrolling through ig, she casually says, “Ooops looks like we’re going to be a little late,” like she didn’t care. Her dad makes a suggestion to bring her dog down with us, and at first I was cool with it. After I come back to do my makeup, she calls me and says that dogs aren’t allowed on the beach until 5pm. I’m sitting here like well the dog’s gonna have to stay home. She then says, Here’s what we can do, we can wait to leave in a few hours, so that her dog can go on the beach.” I was not ok with that as these were MY FRIENDS. I realized she was trying to make us purposefully late and tried to take control of my day. I called my mom to ask for advice, and she tells me to leave. Then like 30 min later, I start getting very anxious, so I call to ask where she is. On that call, I tell her that I am not waiting until 5 to see my friends, and she responds to me with, “Oh we’ll talk about it when I get home.” She comes home, and tells me, “Idc what the situation is, Lucy (her dog) is coming with us.” I tell her ok lets figure something out cuz I’m not waiting until 5. Then she snaps at me, “You already told me that.” And then she says she’s going to take another shower since she was hot and sweaty. At that point, we were going to be 2 hours late. So I grabbed my things, packed my car, and left to meet Blake and Nik by myself while she was showering.
Ever since then, she has not even talked to me. I don’t want to reach out since what I did was me finally standing up for myself from how controlling, manipulative, and jealous she has been to me for a long ass time. And now the situation is hitting me hard today cuz in three days, it’s going to be exactly 1 year since our good friend passed away. That friend is the one who brought us together almost 6 years ago. I just don’t know how to get through this. :( Sorry this is long af, I just needed to vent it out.
