Short version: Didn’t come on here looking for love, it just happened. We’re meeting in December and will continue to meet as much as we can after. I fell in love with an amazing person and I wouldn’t change how we met at all.
So I get and understand that an online relationship is not for everyone and not everyone may understand it. I’ve been on this website for like 6 years, I believe, and never really had any intention of dating anyone. I came on here played my group games and went about my life. I flirted and did all that, but everyone does that on here.
That all changed in like September of 2017. He had auditioned for this org on tengaged called T-Endurance and you had to be on video and all that jazz. So I get on feeds, not really knowing what was going on and this attractive guy was flirting with me, so I flirted back and then I added him on Skype. I never thought anything would come of it and we just talked for a couple of weeks about life and spent time getting to know one another even more.
It was clear we liked each other more than friends, but I was like nah I’ll just ask him to be a showmance because that’s all we’ll be because I doubt he likes me like I him. We became a showmance and just continued talking everyday and would go on feeds to see each other, because we were too nervous I think to go on alone. On September 10th, we went on our first call together and everything changed. We just clicked so well and spent hours just talking. That night, after talking for 3+ hours, this cute guy asked me to be his boyfriend. That boy was Ethan000 and I would have been crazy to say no. I didn’t come on here looking for anyone, we just happened to find each other.
Him and I have been through so much together and have found comfort in each other. I was a very lost and lonely person, until I met him. It takes a lot to open me up and break me down, but I found so much comfort in this person and am comfortable with him.
Yes we do plan on meeting. We’re meeting in December and before I get judged on why so long, it’s because that’s the best weekend out of our schedules to take a weekend to spend time together. We do have lives and money doesn’t grow on trees for me. I have been working my ass almost everyday so I can see him and so I can begin saving even more money to start a future with him. We video chat each and every night, we watch movies together, look at memes together, etc. We literally text each other all day until we get to see each other at the end of the day.
Long distance can fucking suck sometimes, and there are days where it’s extra hard. But I would never give someone so special to me up over a distance, because one day I know him and I will get to be together permanently, we’re just currently working towards it.
You don’t have to read all of this, but just from a collection of all the things being said, I’d thought I’d explain and defend my relationship. Ethan, I love you very very much and am so lucky to have met you. ❤️❤️❤️
Short version: Didn’t come on here looking for love, it just happened. We’re meeting in December and will continue to meet as much as we can after. I fell in love with an amazing person and I wouldn’t change how we met at all.