Ok, This post is about sticking with your own instincts and not going with the majority of people.
Numerous times i play Big Brother on here i find that people join alliances and just follow orders from the boss of that alliance, what are we.... SHEEP? I know that it is a safe option to do and could get you far in the competition but we are not playing poker. It's not a game of fooling other people, it's a game of socializing and making friends .
Do you really think the leader cares about you, lets be honest, the leader of that alliance is most likely going to be the winner of the game. Do you really want to give him/her the satisfaction and wright yourself out as a mug. I used to play this game and wonder what i was doing wrong when i always got kicked out early on in the game, it was because i was too nice and honest. Being them 2 things in real life will get you far, so why not on here?
I know being a lone wolf can be hard at times and sometimes you don't know who to nominate, but don't you agree that going with your gut instinct is a lot more satisfactory then nominating someone who you actually liked? We were all made as individual people so there for we should make our individual decisions. Yes you might make a mistake but you'll learn from that and you will be able to figure out people easier in the future.
In conclusion, one day you are going to look in the mirror and think 1 of 2 things. Either everyone has made choices for you which makes you mentally weak and not have much of a personality behind you. The other would be you are a strong individual who can make up their own mind throughout life knowing that they are staying truthful to them self
So i was playing Big Brother today when i got accused of being a multi. Now i am not that low enough to try and join alliances and be multiple people to try and get far in the game as possible because i think that it is pointless and pathetic. I mean, is it just me or am i the only one who see's this game as a way to socialize with other people, make new friends and just have fun? I get so many messages saying "Wanna be an alliance" and stuff like that, i'm Just like "NO.... i'm here to play fair and square".
So anyway, I was Being accused to be a multi with Belinda Rosemary (check out her blogs, they're AWSOME!) when in actual fact, we were just best friends who wanted to be in a game together. It's not like we plan together who we're gonna nominate and evict, we just like to socialize with other people together. Of course everyone believed this person and kicked me out straight away which made me think of people can be so influenced over one person.
To get to my point, what i'm trying to say is don't just jump to conclusions and take the easy side which is to just agree with them. Listen to both sides of the argument and come up with your own conclusion to which side you trust more. That way you are being true to yourself and it shows you have your own mind and are brave enough to voice your own opinion.
In conclusion, i guess simply that you shouldn't always just go with the flow which is what most of us do. There are so many people that have and will be accused of things they haven't done and it's so frustrating because it's so hard to clear your name after you've been labeled. I hope you guys understand.
So basically i was wondering why people cover themselves up even when it's so hot outside that it's hard to even breathe. now i know some people have issues with the way they look with there figure and other things but i am telling you now.... If you feel like you want to go out in that belly top, or you want to wear shorts above your knees today... then DO IT!
Don't let anyone bring you down, studies show that most people who judge you on your appearance are most likely the ones who are self conscious of there own appearance. Our bodies were made to walk on this earth naked so anyone who tells you what to wear and what to do then tell them to concentrate on there own appearance because that will really hurt them. Life is a difficult journey as it is so you don't need all the pointless sly remarks used by people full of hatred trying to win one over
Always remember that you are Beautiful the way you are and people who wear designer shoes and handbags etc only wear that to distract people from the ugly personality that lies beneath. So you go out there in your short skirt and belly top no matter what size you are because you are entitled to just as much as everybody else and someone out there will see you for the beautiful person you really are.
In conclusion to this post, i'd just like to say that everyone has the same rights in this world so don't let ANYONE tell you what and what not to wear for what ever reason. It's your life, it's your body, it's YOUR CHOICE!
