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#obey_me

systrix
14

When all the problematic

1 systrix, Jan 5, 2024

tengagers are so nice to me back then, before they get banned.  Esp #obey_me

sihz
29

Does any1 remember

3 sihz, Mar 22, 2023

#obey_me? god she was insufferable that even group game hosts called her out for being a disrespectful contestant
Shoutout to mudndawilderness

BB5lover
543

How Did We Go From

8 BB5lover, Feb 7, 2023

Posting #Obey_Me's IP on a Stars final poll to not even TAGGING the users we are beefing with?
This current age Tengaged drama is so fucking bad... like people used to LIVE BLOG their breakups with other Tengagers while moving out of shared apartments.

Mrkk
10

May I ask

2 Mrkk, Sep 23, 2021

Why is #obey_me still in the Tengaged WAP group lol?
I mean in the Featured Users thing

Tester
22

First Page Thingy

2 Tester, Jul 28, 2021

1. Most loyal: AntonB
2. Most selfless: Kindred7
3. Most attractive: SaskiaRae (no homo as I'm straight)
4. Sluttiest: no one lol
5. Most interesting: Heavenlee
6. Sweetest: SeaViper
7. Most distant: #obey_me
8. Most in common with: AntonB I think
9. Funniest: ColinCoco
10. Most caring: NanoNerd
I tried to avoid picking someone twice (except for one spot). Reposting this because the tags failed the first time. Some were close to be on the list but didn't really find a proper category for them.

brandonpinzu
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[MOD] Recorded Audio Q&A

33 brandonpinzu, Apr 26, 2021

Hi Tengaged!
A few days ago, we blogged asking for questions in order to record a Q&A with the moderation team. CheapCheep, koolness234 & I did this in order to give the opportunity for the Tengaged public to ask us specifically about some of the decisions that we had made over the last little bit and to inquire about future directions of the website. Sorry for the delay in posting this, but it is finally ready and can be found below.
DISCLAIMER: This was recorded on the evening of April 24th, meaning that it happened PRIOR to the decisions to ban Akeria/Aquamarine from the website. For any discussion of that in particular, please refer to the blog that CheapCheep had posted yesterday.
The video is posted below. You will also find specific time stamps of each question at the bottom of the blog. Please note that we did not answer all of the questions that were posted in the blog for the sake of time. We stuck (mostly) specifically to moderation-related questions and questions about the direction of the website, meaning we skipped questions that solely asked for opinions or something along that nature. Sorry if your question had been skipped, but feel free to reach out if you have a burning question you'd like answered.

TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 – 01:15 - Introduction
01:15 - 08:13 - The vague nature of the Terms of Service
peace123
jacksonjoseph99
BB5Lover
08:20 - 23:40 - #Obey_Me and the Contacting of Loved Ones Outside of Tengaged (READ ABOVE DISCLAIMER)
Lemjam6
Emzthorne
23:40 - 32:24 - Blacklisting of #PrincessaPeach and Our Rationale
32:24 - 38:35 - etaco75's question about the baseline for racism being the N-word/slurs.
38:35 - 49:50 - The function of the Tengaged Advisory Council
49:50 - 59:20 - TAC Discussions: Harassment Bans, Explicit sexual content, Design rules
59:20 - 1:02:57 - Mrkk's question on the user Sarah48 not receiving a ban.
1:03:37 - EmzThorne's question about gifting shops/shops revert
1:12:27 - EmzThorne's question about having an updated rules list
1:12:57 - Colehausman271 – Updates to Frookies (HOH breaking ties, day one deal POV, playing out the final 4).
1:14:45 - Yawnha – The games rotation.
1:18:25 - 3pi14159 – PFL + has it improved frookies?
1:24:14 - Christian_ - Updating the Tengaged Council more often.
1:26:38 - MmabatlokoaMolefe – Return of the Tengaged Court
1:30:39 - Etaco75 – Making of a T_Mod account/do mod points still exist
1:35:20 - Times_Places – Spreading of misinformation.
1:36:55 - Austino15fffan – The hacking of accounts.
1:40:19 – Kelly0412
1:41:12 - Cbasscordero – Changing..

sosyomomma
17

I don't know this fella

1 sosyomomma, Apr 25, 2021

#obey_me but if you're gonna have him banned, I do see a bunch of people mathboy, aqua, akeria so on that should be banned. kinda rude to just bully that obey person and ban them and no one else

Lemjam6
19

Contrary to Belief

4 Lemjam6, Apr 25, 2021

I think Moderation should not permanently ban aquamarine
He's a fucked up person. So is Akeria. So is #Obey_Me
Moderation took such a public stance banning #Obey_Me that it would look bad if they now didn't take a stance banning Johnny/Akeria but the drama between the two has going on for so long.
If you take a step back and look at it from both of their sides, I think both of them feel like they needed to contact someone because they were scared for their own life. It's weird, I don't know where it all started or how and personally I would never contact someone's personal family/work/police, but things must have gotten so bad if they felt like they seriously needed to contact someone for everything to stop.
Obviously there is going to be push for Johnny to be banned, and I have no idea why I'm defending him because he IS crazy, but I do think he only did it to prevent something happening to HIS job. I like Dallas, but both of them are absolutely insane. Johnny contacted the police on me like yeah, but he has put so much into the site and I genuinely believed he is just trying to defend himself. He is severely mentally ill and needs to be checked out, though.
I think we should just say IT ENDS HERE. Don't permanently ban either one. Maybe a temporary ban and then just let this be the last warning. I think both seriously believe their lives are in Jeopardy and it has caused them to do such insane things. Like imagine thinking you have to get ahead of it by messaging police/family/work before someone has a chance to ruin your life. It really is a scary thing in a way.
But then you also have to unban #obey_me and start over starting now. The Johnny/Dallas beef is years in the making and I believe both are just trying to defend themselves. And at this point I have no idea what screenshots/emails are real because both of them are insane and will make shit up and it would be unfair to ban anyone for something FALSE.
I like Dallas, but do I think it's possible he faked these screenshots and waited for the perfect moment to post them when mods banned obey_me? I do think it's possible. Which is why we should not be banning anyone for things off of the website because we don't know what's real and what's fake.
Johnny has been on this website for like his entire life, it's hard for me to believe he would so something like this two days after mods make a rule against it.

brandonpinzu
956

[MOD] Recorded Q&A

74 brandonpinzu, Apr 23, 2021

Hi Tengaged!
There has been a number of hot topics that have been discussed on the blogs page over the last week or so that have prompted the moderation team to want to work towards improving transparency around our decisions. As always, transparency is one of our primary goals and I think we have been fairly strong at keeping you all updated on our rationale about bans. However, there are times where a lot will happen, proving it to be difficult to explain every detail of a decision.
Because of that, the moderation team has decided to host a recorded Q&A session. After some feedback we had received in the comments of some previous blogs, we thought this would be an efficient way to address concerns and questions rather than post them in a long blog.
Here is how it will work. This blog will serve as an opportunity for Tengaged users to propose some topics for discussion and ask specific questions about their moderation-related concerns. We will compile those into topics and answer as many as we can. However, please note, that we will not be answering every question and are far more likely to answer things that are relating to a specific decision rather than something such related to updates to the website. We will be recording this at some point tomorrow and posting it tomorrow night.
Some of the current topics of discussion that we will be sure to discuss are as follows:
- The decision around the user #obey_me and the contacting of loved ones outside of Tengaged.
- The decision around the blacklisting of PrincessaPeach and our rationale around this decision.
- The vague nature of the Terms of Service.
- The function of the Tengaged Advisory Council
- Harassment bans
- Explicit sexual content
- Design rules
Tagging some users who have made blogs/comments which we explicitly intend on discussing:
BB5Lover
sihz
jacksonjoseph99
peace123
Post any topics/questions that you have below!

Akeria
102

Tengaged Meetup!

3 Akeria, Apr 23, 2021

(pic)
Met up with #obey_me last week cause we live in the same city. She's actually so much nicer in person 😭 I'm going to miss that queen.

Kelly0412
125

somebody has to say it

5 Kelly0412, Apr 23, 2021

where was this energy when aquamarine called the police on lemjam6 over frooks or called LucyX3Jean's work and countless other times.
do we only care about doxxing and messaging if its a user who is universally disliked like #Obey_Me
where is Johnnys permanent ban?

CheapCheep
1499

[MOD] Regarding the obey_me situation...

35 CheapCheep, Apr 23, 2021

Hello! Been a while since I got to blog one of these.
After discussing the events surrounding the initial ban on #obey_me's account, and after further evidence has been brought to the table post-ban, we have decided to increase the user's ban to a permanent one. Due to the user's extensive history regarding issues of harassment, and the real life threats posed by this, we will not be overturning this decision.
We believe that users have a right to their privacy and security to their real lives outside of Tengaged. By putting the security and safety of other user's into question by reaching out to their real world contacts and attempting to inflict real world consequences, it damages trust and puts our users into dangerous situations.
We do not have tolerance for these kinds of tactics, and have decided to proceed with greater consequences. As a reminder, we do not advise that you share any personal information that may lead to obstacles and security risks down the line.
Thank you all for understanding.
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sosyomomma
15

oh ok

2 sosyomomma, Apr 22, 2021

fuck #obey_me I thought it was about doxing

sosyomomma
0

not that i dont like

6 sosyomomma, Apr 22, 2021

mathboy9 but how is #obey_me banned and not adam?
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