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NathanDamnit
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Pronouns Policy & Misgendering

1 NathanDamnit, Sep 1, 2023

Oh God, where I live there's a school board/school ministry decision or whatever fuck lol that passed a policy where Parental Consent of those under 16 is required to follow students preferred name, pronouns and what gender/bathroom they use.
Like, if your parents aren't accepting or schools the one safe space you are free to be yourself, before you choose to come out to them.... as LGBT+ or even just transgender... and it's not safe, that is dangerous. Or if you're out already basically have to come out again with your parents present, it's really fucked up.
Also, getting your drivers license. What the fuck will happen there?! Driver training what do they put down...? Then what will your license say? I've been misgendered before by police where I ive (loooong time ago) and basically it's being written into law.
My heart was/is with the USA and unfair, unjust laws being passed, now it's happening where I live and people are upset, alll I can think of is the youth and cultivating safe spaces, because this can put youth in harms way which is a bad reality but it could happen.
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NathanDamnit
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Random advice from my motivational APP

0 NathanDamnit, Aug 20, 2023

“Approach the game with no preset agendas and you'll probably come away surprised at your overall efforts.”
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NathanDamnit
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i miss my cat *cries now irl* (MY STORY)

2 NathanDamnit, Aug 6, 2023

Her name was Starr, she was a black kitty and so cute, but I lost her in 2021 after I wound up homeless for 3 weeks during the winter. I had her safe at this house, but when I broke my arm I moved to the big city in an ambulance (end of Nov/early Dec 2021) and lost her, forever...
I didn't tell my family or my friends where I was because when I was homeless nobody would help me so I found myself sleeping outside or staying up all night and warming up in gas station bathrooms. I had to shoplift to feed myself or eat at 1 of 2 agencies on the day they had free breakfast; the other day being the odd chance they had something but they usually didn't. I began to grow tired of that life because though i had a charger for my phone one time the casino security stole it from me; that was the coldest day and I remember thinking "what will I do?" but people who were known as street parents helped me and would let me sleep on the floor of their crowded houses and if I was lucky I got 20 mins of sleep. 1 time I pulled a building fire alarm just so the police would throw me in cells and I had somewhere warm for 1 night.
Then the accident happened after it snowed. The night before i slept on the step of a church, huddled in the doorway, making sure to keep 1 eye open so no one bothered me. I went to the library during the first snowfall of late 2021 and I had a BAD fall. I had a humerus fracture and required an ambulance and the hospital said surgery.
I was in the hospital, in a room, with my arm propped up on blankets and a pillow. Everytime I moved my arm I could feel the bone rub on bone and had to sit through the pain, I hid my tears. The staff discovered I had no one who cared i was in the hospital, after sitting in a room for hours. I was about to get in an ambulance and get driven to the big city and wait an undetermined time for surgery... I cried my eyes out. But then this lil nurse, the 2 paramedics who brought me in and i think the 2 paramedics who would drive me in ambulance crowded around my bed as I was given pain killers. They took a deep breath for me and put my arm in a sling; the nurse bought it for me because other wise my arm would have had nothing during a bumpy ride doing over 100 kilometers on a highway late at night.
I remember feeling next to nothing. Pain killers were new to me. Aside from thinking "what will I do in the city after surgery? Where will I go? What will happen to me?" all I could think of was my cat locked inside a boarded up abandoned house. Crying for me in the front window. I cried for her, she was my best friend.
I sat in the city hospital for days on end, replenishing my body with food, getting meds to stave off the pain. It was eatly december when i got surgery. Today, I have an ugly scar on my arm and a bar with several screws in it. I can feel energy and weird surges in the air and it's strange. It's like a weird super power. MAYBE I am bionic?
My brother and his friend took..

NathanDamnit
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Grindr Horror Stories Part 1.1

2 NathanDamnit, Jul 23, 2023

Here goes,
i was out for a walk in a small town/city (25,000 people) when i decided to sit on a bench and look at the busiest street in town. It was near the 7Eleven and shopping centers, so regardless of time being 11:00PM on a Thursday; I felt no concern for my safety, so I did what any other gay does and logged onto Grindr to surf through the sea of headless torso's.
Then, a profile who seemed like a nice guy in the past, because he was kind of flirty and friendly sent the message:
"Go home. You shouldn't be out right now."
On my walk home I was yelled at by a car of teenagers, white-gringo rural types who proceeded to be homophobic. Was the text I received somebody looking out for me or was it a threat? I think it was the latter.
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NathanDamnit
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Tengaged Summer Fests 2023

0 NathanDamnit, Jul 21, 2023

* No Cherita Fest this year we giving cheritaisdelicious a break
** King and Queen Frookies - just wear a crown or something regal
*** Off the Hezze Fest - wear your Off the Hezze Ahezze t-shirts to represent the famous shop glitch that made these now rare shirts free to everyone, limited time offer, back in the day.
**** Festie Bestie Fest - just be friendly to other people and talk nice to them
(No weekly fests Tengaged Summer Fest is from July 21st until July 29th 2023)
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NathanDamnit
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BREAKING NEWS

0 NathanDamnit, Jul 12, 2023

Jubbzy hired and FIRED as NEW games co-ordinator on the heels of the latest dramas. There's no proof, no press release, no announcements, aside from this sensationalized news update.
https://tengaged.com/user/Jubbzy
Seen here is Jubbzy 's avatar as a SKELETON to leave you with a jarred reaction so you neither question the validity of this breaking game co-ordinator news!!
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NathanDamnit
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What's your city known for

1 NathanDamnit, Apr 29, 2023

Tengaged-city is known for inclusivity and for being a champion of trans* representation, but my irl (in real life city but i wont name it) is known, in one embarassing way, for transphobia because of a trans* keynote speaker being announced for a women's organization for an important commemoration.
LIKE SERIOUSLY THE DAY AFTER TENGAGED CELEBRATED TRANS* PEOPLE FOR THEIR NOTORIETY AROUND HERE?!?!!
Since people want to fall into this or that binaries or only 2 choices there's choosing ignorance or choosing to be free from being ignorant. End my classic throwback DAMNIT, NATHAN style rant.
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NathanDamnit
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Does anybody else

0 NathanDamnit, Apr 25, 2023

flirt by being mean or is it just me
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NathanDamnit
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I used to get nervous

1 NathanDamnit, Mar 9, 2023

and anxiety sweats like alll the time but one day I gave a presentation to RCMP cadet trainees and like, I was hella nervous, embarassed, whatever... ANyway, I stilll get nervous and anxiety and sweats and shizz. Cool, huh?
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NathanDamnit
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Stars 7-4-7 Nominated for 16th Blog

1 NathanDamnit, Mar 5, 2023

As the late great Nikki Grahame would say... "WHO IS SHE?!" and I am wondering the same thing to myself about kingb24 who has NOT spoken a world at all to half this cast, unlike me, who has put in work and strategized to keep myself and one other person off the block. They countered and as a result yours truly is on the nomination chair.
MY TWO WISHES; to achieve a close to 99% eviction vote or to survive the poll and ensure my targets get nominated so I can play this game longer than 16th to whatever shit placements I got stuck with in the past!
Thanks!
https://tengaged.com/poll/bigbrother-game-221866
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NathanDamnit
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STARS Advice from an expert

0 NathanDamnit, Jan 30, 2023

and multi-time player.... THIS IS WHERE YOU WON'T FIND IT! But if any experts and multi-time players got advice for me, inbox meee thanks!
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NathanDamnit
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remember when

0 NathanDamnit, Jan 18, 2023

right clicking your avatar and changing the quality of it made it look low quality shiz, blurry and hilarious  🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 #thegays

NathanDamnit
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Y'all icons

0 NathanDamnit, Dec 31, 2022

but remember most of yall coloured (levels!! coloured levels!!!) and homosexshuass who would still be icons without checking off those boxes
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Pavaneli
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I'm devastated

1 Pavaneli, Nov 29, 2022

I was walking with my boyfriend when a homophobic dog barked and ran after us. #thegays

NathanDamnit
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Happy Halloween PYN

20 NathanDamnit, Oct 28, 2022

Post Your Name and I will comment what candy or Halloween themed item I give you for this amazinggg holiday!! Also, when you PYN, tell me your costume choice if you appeared at my door for a trick or a treat!!
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Booyahhayoob You get Gummy Bears and a handful of Halloween Creme Eggs
Jogon You get two handfuls of fun-size caramilk bars and 6 packs of Cherry blasters
SeaKing You get a half box of gumballs, suckers, rockets and a whole Crispy Crunch Bar
Keefe You get some Coffee Crisp bars, the whole kind, and some Ketchup and All Dressed chips
Countrysavage You get door closed on you first time  cause I got scared then you get a $5 bill and a handful of creme eggs cause I feel bad
Mrrobzilla you get a hanfdul of sour patch kids and a handful of caramilk bars
Cheritaisdelicious You get to drive me to store on a run for adult things ALSO I give you a Salad, a Fiji Water and sugar free gum
sjsoccer88 A reeses [oeces cheesecake from my freezer
skyler1822 I ran out of candy so you get all the change in my Kermit the frog piggy bank ($29.45 canadian dollarsss)
wannabeefriends rockets, tootsie pops, crunchie bars and a mr.big

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