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Give me topics for Cher-rants

20 cheritaisdelicious, Jan 10, 2021

I'll tag you and write my thoughts on your topic
ItsAustin - I don't personally smoke very often, I like the idea of it, but actually doing it usually makes my throat/chest hurt a bit. I haven't done it in years, but since it's been so long I'd probably do it again if I was hanging out with someone who had some. I've been intrigued about edibles though, I'd love to try gummies or something, but unfortunately it's not legal in my state. I mean I'm sure I could still get them somehow and I do know people with connections, but it's all a lot of work for a ~good girl~ like me. That said, I think it should be legal everywhere, because criminalization of marijuana is ridiculous.
lmaobrit2214 - So I've been on both sides of this, and it can definitely be exhausting. The key is trying to find balance. Let them both know that you like and respect them BOTH, and that you want them to know that you liking the other person is not meant to be offensive or disloyal to them. But at the same time, sometimes you may need to listen to them vent about the other. Sometimes people just need to let their feelings out, and listening is okay. I know I had this issue recently and whenever I mentioned the other person, my friend would just tune out anything I said and repeat I'M NOT TAKING SIDES over and over. But the way he did it always made me feel as if he had in fact taken a side, and it was not mine. So eventually he and I sat down and discussed it, and I told him that I accepted he still liked the other person, and that I was not trying to make him think poorly of them, but sometimes I just needed someone to listen to me. I hope that helps you a little bit.
CarolinaSteele - I feel like this one is tricky, because there are SO MANY different possible scenarios. I think a lot of it depends on what exactly the person did, when it occurred, how they dealt with it, did they show remorse, etc. Actions should have consequences, and letting people have free passes definitely can lead to problems and show them there is no need to take accountability. But at the same time, I think sometimes it can go too far. If you're digging years into the past, and it's a behavior the person does not exhibit anymore, and they show legitimate remorse for their past actions, then I feel like it's almost like you're trying to cancel them just for the sake of cancelling them (this example really only fits for things such as ignorant comments, or small crimes like shoplifting. If it comes to actual violence and stuff, that's completely different.) Then there are situations where it's an artist, and you may be able to separate their actions from their work. For example, I don't use Twitter, but I have heard JK Rowling has been a rather awful person on there with terrible views. I've heard many terrible things about her, which make me believe she probably is not a very good person. But at the same time, her books are so enjoyable. I loved them..

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