https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fPQeMqiKqKs https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eT70RUV_9rw https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kaLYpDMaDh8 Iscariot | WALK THE MOON
Unfucktheworld | Angel Olsen
Blood I Bled | The Vassar Devils
The theme of my story is grief and loss, especially of a sibling. I lost my brother suddenly a little over 2 years ago, and each of these songs resonated with me, though for totally different reasons. “Iscariot” represents the initial shock, then later anger and self-hatred I experienced. The song begins quiet and gloomy, then builds to my rage: as I cry out to “my friend, my friend... my brother,” I berate myself that I “had it coming.” Then, as “Unfucktheworld” begins, I transition into loneliness, which I think is pretty evident. The song is quite minimalistic, the vocals are kind of muted, and “I am the only one now” is repeated over and over. And as “Blood I Bled” starts, some of that pain is still there. I still feel my brother’s “feet that fall (right behind),” and still feel “suffering.” However, around halfway through the song, the primary singer finds community, like I have myself. After being confronted with “the damage of churlish rage,” the lead vocalist moans in agony alone, before being joined in her expression of pain and sorrow by the community around her. Even as the song reaches its end, she has still lost her roots, and her leaves are still dead, but she is able to express her pain with gained strength (volume) and support (harmonies). I still feel hurt and grief for my brother, but I’ve learned to express these feelings more healthily and, in a way, beautifully. Technically, none of these songs were written to be about grief, but whenever I hear and interpret them, I’m reminded of my own grief and story.