So I met this guy on my bday weekend (a little over a month ago) and we've been hung out/hooked up like 5/6 times since then, but I legit have no idea what he wants from me. Like he's very sexual over text and the sex is good, but we also like go on dates and have good convos/a lot in common. I'm kinda wanting something serious from him, but don't wanna scare him away. Should I just keep going with the flow or should I be upfront and ask him what he wants and risk being hurt by his answer?
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For now just keep it as it is and during one of those conversations you have maybe steer it a little that way to test the waters. Make it a passing comment first before you lay down the law lol
I mean I would just continue to go with the flow till you can get a better read of what he wants. Especially if you enjoy hanging out with him / the sex anyways.
tharealmike i would ask cause the paranoia / not knowing would make me feel worse than being sad if he鈥檚 only interested in sex. plus if you ask and he says he might want something serious then you are gaining! if he says no then i鈥檓 sure u have a laundry list of guys who will want to talk to you
I'm in a similar predicament tharealmike minus like actual sex, he's hinted at wanting a relationship with me very subtly but like it's still not enough for me to be sure, and it just boggles my mind. I would be coy for a little longer, but that's just me, I'm not the type to make the move, if he wants something serious I think he'll be the one to drop the hint.
RoboZoe Thanks boo, I miss you as well! but I think you are right, like he's mentioned that he usually only does long-term things, but he could've also just been saying that idk.
LiteCitrus I'm the exact same way, I hate making the first move too, I always let someone else make the move, but yeah this guy has like hinted at it but not enough for me to really know, so I'm still staying a little guarded with him