I was a part of the whole Admir/ Willie_ friend group for a couple years, and it really increased over the past year.
However, that is no longer as of a couple days ago when I was finally open about being annoyed with the "classic eighty pound weight gain" bullshit.
Are they bad people? Absolutely YES. Admir especially is a bad person outside of the diet, and it's hard to even tell with Willie because of the strange persona he takes on here, but I would assume the same for him.
But on here, we came to lose weight and it's ridiculous that they act like they're so important that they can do "eighty pound weight gain" and they decide that for the whole cast like if you want to eat more go to mcdonalds lmfao. And, when I think back, I should have been assertive a loooong time ago, especially because I'm not the only person who's annoyed. They are only concerned with their own wants and needs (they being the closer-knit inner circle of admir/willie/ darbe) and they think it's so hilarious and like... it is until they make people sit around gaining weight and ruining the actual structure of the body. Then it's not funny anymore because it's not even healthy and we all joined to lose weight.
It's just shocking that I allowed myself to be around such selfish behavior for so long and I think that has to do with the fact that I genuinely want to be accepted into a group because, even though I have plenty of close friends irl, I don't have one group and I just want somewhere to go where I have a sense of individual belonging in one group. It sounds dumb, but I've also realized it's 100% not worth it to deal with so much selfish crap lol. So that's that, and that's why you will notice a change in diets and stuff.
AND, I would just like to say for all the times I got accused of being in a "t-diet", it's not really a t-diet if every time you lose weight they bring you more food and it's out of your control or that any time you feel like losing weight they're already there sitting with their happy meals. Yes, I was friends with them and we often went on diabetic comas together, but it wasn't like we said "OKAY LET'S HAVE A HAPPY MEAL... NOW!". It wasn't as intentional as most of the t-diets on this site and I just joined when I was available and ate with friends. That's still my policy, but with different people.
