when do you think or kind of i guess give up on someone you're in love with?
like when there seems to be more pain happening and not the good kind
when you can't just stay with them cos you love them
when do you know when to end it
or when it's time because love isn't enough?
more or so how do u get yourself to do it?
obvi its hard when u love them and u wish for everything to be normal or good again
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when your life would be happier and more stress-free without them
i get bored pretty easily and idk like relationships are fun when they start but then they drag on and i find things i dont like about that person (for me at least, like starting out everyone is on their best behavior). if its an actual relationship, you just tell them its over. If it's not a relationship, just ghost them LOL
If you guys are fighting more than you're actually getting along,
If you're not having sex,
If you guys dont have a connection anymore.
ETC.
Deep down, you know if you want to do it. If its too late to make things work, and you both want to cut it off. Just have a conversation about it. Hopefully everything goes well <3
There is no real answer. Its all up to you. Its when you have had enough. Thats when its over. When the butterflys stop and you feel more anger then love.
The only way to give up on them is if your happiness on the line and if there’s no cknnection anymore. Yes it’s going to be extremely difficult to let go of them especially if you’re in love with them, but you have to make a choice that’s going to benefit you later.
Personally, mine came to an end when i realized bitterness was creeping in. We were simply were growing in different directions and no amount of love was going to bring us back to being in love the way we once were. It was really tough on both of us when we went out seperate ways. A couple years later, i can still say it hurts me to my core but it was for the best. The hardest part was letting go of the who were were together in the beginning.. if that makes sense. Letting go of all the belief we once had that we were truly meant to be together forever.
I'll also say that no one can answer this but yourself. Everyone has different deal breakers and rules for what makes them happy or fulfilled in a relationship. If you know you've given it your all and its still not working, its probably not going to.
