Who I am friends with and who I am not is for me to decide and me alone. I don't want all my friends to agree with decisions on other friends and we're welcome as people to dislike our friends friends but do not try and force me to turn one way or the other because you will just force me away.
I can only judge people based on how they treat me personally because you can say all the bad stuff you want about someone but if I've never seen it, I can't judge it. I don't see every single interaction to know what ture, what's not and what's been embellished so live and let live yes?
You be my friend, I'll be there friend and we just don't talk about them with each other, is that so hard?
octopusbubbles is my best friend and we have friends the other one of us doesn't like and you know how it affects our relationship?? Not at all. That's why I love her!