As an adult male who interacts with children daily as a part of my job, not all adult/minor interactions are an attempt at grooming, and it is toxic to assume so.
The amount of times I have had kids NEED an expression of love from someone and come to me for it is, well, quite high. However we live in a world where adult men, especially queer adult men, are only seen as predators when interacting with children, so I have had to be SO careful, sometimes to the detriment of the kid’s emotional well being. Sometimes they just needed a hug because a family member died - I very, very rarely end up hugging these students though.
Grooming/pedophilia is a VERY serious accusation. We all can agree that when it happens, it is vile and should be swiftly and harshly dealt with. But you have to make sure you have incontrovertible evidence before stating it as fact.
Comment a QUESTION (not a yes or no question that’s boring) or comment a vibe or sth. If you just say “me” or “general reading :)” I will read you to filth for being boring, you have been warned.
Edit: FYI the three cards are past, present, future
xyris 5 of wands reversed, the devil reversed, temperance reversed. Wow that’s a powerful deal. Your past has been full of conflict, only some of which has been beneficial. Your present seems bleak to you, but since the devil is reversed it is not as dire as it may appear and in fact you may be in a great position to move forward with your desires. Your future indicates a period of indulgence, just be careful to not over-indulge :)
bluebarracuda first of all, love legends of the hidden temple. 7 of wands reversed, king of pentacles upright, death upright. Yikes. You have had a lot of energy leading up to the present but haven’t always known where to direct it. The king is interesting, it could either mean you are secure in your material surroundings, or there is a materially powerful man (possibly an earth sign man) very important to your current situation. The death card in your future is, well, not great. Expect a big, final ending to an important part of yourself within 5 yrs (though, this does open up the possibility for new beginnings.)
biminibonboulash knight of swords, 3 of cups, 8 of wands reversed. You, or an air sign man important to you, have been charging forward with an idea you think is fully correct or pragmatic. At present, things may seem stable especially relating to feelings, though you or others may feel this stability isn’t the final destination. Be careful moving forward - the passionate path may not result in a straightforward outcome, though that doesn’t have to be a bad thing.
fetish 9 of pentacles, 10 of swords, 4 of wands. I actually like this one for you based on your question. Your past has been figuring out how to improve your environment (with what looks to be success), though it may have resulted in a present where you feel overwhelmed by the responsibility you have. Fear not - your future will set you up to fully pursue what you feel passionate about.
druhhbby2 9 of wands, 4 of swords, the fool reversed. Oh man. You have really thrown your all into your career in some important ways, and that has led you to have some very solid ideas about what you want for it. Be confident in those, you have every right to be. You’ll need it, as you’re about to start a new journey - though it may not manifest how you would expect.
electric king of pentacles, 5 of cups reversed, the hierophant. Honestly the last two cards I’m not that experienced with so bear with me. Your past could either be that you’re confident and secure with your surroundings, or there’s an important man (perhaps an earth sign) associated with competence in the environment. Your present seems to indicate a sense of longing for something, though you may not know what exactly or you may not know how to satisfy that longing. Your future seems full of lessons, though it’s unclear whether you’re learning the lessons or teaching them.
jessie_ 5 of pentacles, 6 of swords reversed, knight of swords. You’ve had it ROUGH, clearly. You have NOT been appreciated or compensated enough for the work you put in. Capitalism, am I right? You may feel you’re at a crossroads with where to proceed, but you should feel confident in what you decide to be the logical course of action - it will work out for you, provided you think it through first.
fighterman don’t need the cards to tell me that it’s your impulsiveness, but I’ll deal you anyways. 4 of swords, 3 of pentacles, 7 of swords reversed. You are confident in your ideas, rightly so, and it has resulted in a material and social stability, though it may leave you wanting for more. Don’t overdo it going forward - if you stay in your lane, but confidently, it will work out.
midiaw knight of wands reversed, 2 of pentacles reversed, 10 of pentacles reversed. You don’t know what you want exactly, and as a result you’ve struggled to make good financial/social/material decisions. Unless you get that sorted out, you’re in for a mess in your surroundings going forward.
