Why do people feel the need to keep making the gay community look WEAK?
Were not, and we don't have to look that way. Stop whining like a woman when people say a word. Embrace the word and take it back from the homophobes.
Moaning and complaining when somebody says something makes our community look weak. The blacks didn't just walk around complaining all day long to get their movement under way.
Get some perspective, and embrace what is being used against us. Use it positively, and then the word loses its power. The only person giving it power is the person hearing it.