A picture of me in boxer briefs where I'm literally flaccid & standing far away from my mirror makes this website "unsafe." I'm tired of this topic & I wasn't going to address it any further, but do not group me in with a list of things that are dangerous to this website.
I was one of the main people speaking up against the KNOWN pedophiles (#Tigger, #Imthtawesom, #RoboZoe & others) that were still lurking on this website just MONTHS AGO. I got endless backlash, countless hate blogs made about me & dozens of people calling me a liar when I shared my experiences, even when met with screenshots/proof. I never saw the people who are coming at my weight loss picture come to my defense to "protect the website's minors."
I can understand where people are coming from. Could I have thrown on a pair of shorts? Sure. In my mind, it's a picture showing my weight loss progress & honestly I don't think it's revealing AT ALL. Nothing about that picture is UNSAFE & calling it that is extremely disheartening.
To the people who have a lot to say about the safety of minors on Tengaged, just think back to the last time you got involved in something to help the community as opposed to snagging a quick top blog & some clout. You guys hopped on a bandwagon for 0.5 T$ while simultaneously trying to tear someone down & turn what should've been an extremely positive blog into an unnecessary scandal. I hope some of you reflect on your actions & realize how dangerous what you're doing really is.
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Agreed sweetie! People are just jealous that they don't look like you. Trust and believe if they had the looks, personality, intellect, and charisma that you had they'd be doing the same shit. Love you!
Don鈥檛 let flakes bother you. Like you said the blog should鈥檝e been something really positive! People just like to cause drama and others like to jump on a bandwagon!
while i don't think you would've posted it with any bad intentions,
i can't help but wonder if the response would be the same from people saying "its fine!" if you had sent that same photo privately to a minor, and if the defense of "im just showing my weight loss!" would be acceptable to them in that situation
whats the difference between sending a photo like that to a minor vs just posting publicly for them to see anyway
when people have been perm banned for a lot less
personally i don't really care, im not offended by it at all but i understand why people might be and im just always confused about the dynamics and hypocrisy of the site when it comes to stuff like this and protecting minors
