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Ice Breaker?

Nov 16, 2014 by countrygirl15701
I've posted about this before, but I feel like I MIGHT have made some progress.  I've been talking to my crush via Facebook and today, I went to their production of A Christmas Carol.  When I told him I never saw it live, he told me "It would be nice if I could go".  I'm still not 100% sure if he meant it would be nice if I went to see it because it was a fun program and the kids worked really hard on it.  OR if he meant, it would be nice to see you.  He was one of the directors in the musical.  Anyway, after the program was out and the directors came out to thank people, I couldn't take my eyes off him.  He truly is SO different from my ex.  When I was walking out, I saw him, cause he was thanking people as they left.  I'm pretty sure I saw a smile, like he was glad I was there.  But Idk.  I hope I'm not reading to much into this.  I just sent him a message on FB telling him I was glad I made it there and everyone did a great job with it.  I also said, "job well done" and asked him what's next now that it's over. 

I'm soooo tempted to ask him if he would like to get a coffee or something.  But yet, I'm holding back on it.  I just don't know...My brain and heart are fighting with each other.  My heart is saying go for it and see what happens, yet my brain is saying, don't because he's either not interested or likes someone else.  Idk what to do right now.

But I do hope him seeing me at the musical was the ice breaker we needed.

Comments

just ask him, i like girls who ask guys out. and if he says no, then atleast you can stop stressing about it so win/win !
Sent by Piddu,Nov 16, 2014
Just go for it, what have you got to lose? Life is for living! You might be feeling nervous to ask but the worst that can happen is he says no which is probably highly unlikely anyway. Give it a try, you might be surprised :) and I hope it works out for you!
Sent by Jouix,Nov 16, 2014
Piddu Jouix  I heard back from him and he said that he was "so glad I could make it and enjoyed it".  I responded back to him, "yes I did and it was nice to see you after".  I said some other stuff too, but I'm not going to repost that.  I've also had some encouragement from my friends on FB.  One person posted this:  "Better to have loved and lost than to have not loved at all." Go for it!"

I told that person that I had just heard that in a Christmas movie on the Hallmark Channel the other day.

Then I have my sister asking me if I want her to say something to him.  But she doesn't know what.  I told no and I'll see what happens.

I have NEVER felt this way towards ANYONE before.  I mean this guy had me from the first time I saw him and saw his smile.
Sent by countrygirl15701,Nov 16, 2014
countrygirl15701 Aw that's so nice! And your friends are soo right you'll end up regretting it if you don't just go for it :P try not let others do the talking for you though, just be yourself and see what happens :)
Sent by Jouix,Nov 17, 2014

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