today I came out to my lowkey homophobic father this was our phone conversation
Also my dad is like 87 and “religious” LOL
*dog barks*
D- did you get a dog?
Me- no that’s my girlfriend’s dog.
D- oh like you’re at your friends who has a dog?
Me- no I have a girlfriend and it’s her dog
D- like your friend?
M- no like a boyfriend but a girlfriend. Like a girl I am dating.
D- like how your sister has a girlfriend? (One of my sisters is gay who he refuses to meet her gf)
M- yes
D-that’s bad
M- what’s bad?
D - the Bible says same sex and gay and cigarettes and all that are bad
M- oh the Bible says it’s bad oh ok *laughed really loud*
Then he proceeded to tell me how he was parked in a parking garage after having dinner and shopping and had to drive home LOL
This also wasn’t fighting just like a banter if anything if you know how I actually talk plz read this in my voice 😭
It was actually a funny convo and now I imagine my dad will call me less vs him calling me 3 times a week
I am also probably not the favourite chile anymore maybe im 3rd fav if lucky out of 7 LOL
Anyways hope everyone is doing good just wanted to share this since I was being my open and true self on here because this site has been a safe space for me since I was 16 and moved to america.
sending love to all but logging back out for now
Time to proof read gominai ‘s thesis MY KING CONSORT
D- like how your sister has a girlfriend? (One of my sisters is gay who he refuses to meet her gf)
M- yes
D-that’s bad
M- what’s bad?
D - the Bible says same sex and gay and cigarettes and all that are bad
Lmao relatable. At least you’re taking these important steps! Congrats on this tough convo and glad it wasn’t THAT terrible. Hopefully y’all will still get to call often!
