Disliking Kiki and finding any reason to hold her to the fire. The argument of, “I'm uncomfortable with this legal action, so change it” is quite the slippery slope to go down.
It wouldn’t matter if it was Kiki or Milliv (used a random
Lady don’t get mad milli) it’s weird for a 40 year old to be friends with an 18 year old. When he was 17 she was in her 30’s while it maybe be legal and all now it’s just a weird thing to be proud of imo. And as far as I know I am still entitled to that right ?
Then don’t befriend older people. But to use weird or “uncomfortable” to dictate others actions is a dangerous path. Some people are “uncomfortable” of lgbt relationships. So, with all consistency being considered, should they also dictate action for “comfort”? You can’t stand on inconsistent grounding? Bambino
Tbh I don't hate Kiki on a personal level but I just find it weird a grown adult being friends with a 17/18 year old ... I'm 22 and I wouldn't even be friends with someone that young.
I don’t think that was a good comparison personally, if you feel uncomfortable toward lgbt relationships you’re simply homophobic.. if you feel like a 20 year gapped friendship is uncomfortable you’re pretty much just normal and sane..
That’s your personal choice who you befriend. Just as it’s hers. But all I’m saying is, if “weird” or “uncomfortable” calls for a change in action, then the lgbt+ movement may be in trouble. Jasmina
I live by the mantra live and let live. If I don’t like something, (as long as it’s legal) there’s no reason for me to try to hold someone else over the fire. I just don’t do that thing in my own personal life. I don’t like marijuana. In fact, I have a strong disdain for marijuana. But I’m not going to confront or call out anyone who smokes it. I simply don’t smoke it.
So once again, I ask.. what right do you have to tell them they can’t be friends? Don’t befriend older people and go about your life
Well suppose u should try talking to the 18-22 idk what the cutoff age is here go be appropriate age of dating or friending.. who be trying to hit me up on a dating site!! Ur comfort is not of my concern or tjs concern what we do is of no one's concern and I'm tired of everyone making some big deal of it and again none of u know my age and my age doesn't matter!!
what’s the point of freedom of speech if you’re not gonna use it? I’m not trying to tell anyone how to live their life because i know they will still be friends once this topic dies down. I wasn’t the one who initially started this conversation i just added my two cents i didn’t think that would be such a WW3.. live and let live is a good thing to live by but also we should be able to freely voice what we think on different topics without it being considered oh I just don’t like her.. i genuinely don’t understand the friendship.
That’s exactly what y’all (or maybe I should say they) have been doing! If not what’s the point in calling her out? What y’all (or they) are communicating to Kiki is that she should not be friends with TJ. Yes it’s freedom of speech. But it’s also trying to dictate the choices of who she makes as friends.
If you don’t like weed and you were to make a blog about not liking weed that’s fine because that’s your opinion! I smoke weed so we would be on opposite sides of that argument as well would i be mad at you for making a blog expressing your distaste for weed absolutely not because you’re entitled to that. Just because you choose not to doesn’t mean i have to choose not to as well.
I guess that’s where we just differ as people. I see the need to say some things and you don’t. It doesn’t make you right and me wrong or vice Versa it just makes us different
All I’m doing is holding a mirror up to show the inconsistencies on the blog page. We call it homophobia now, but it wasn’t always labeled as such. Kiki can look at y’all and say you’re just hating on her age. I don’t see the false equivalencies. Either our comforts are dictating others lifestyles, or they aren’t? 🤷♂️ mathboy9
I’m very comfortable with you making this blog and us having this argument i just wasn’t comfortable with you saying it’s because I just don’t like Kiki. When in reality it wouldn’t matter what lady or man it was I’m speaking out on 40 year olds being friends with 19 year olds..
boysofsummer2005 holding up a mirror to what?? if we're making barely coherent analogies then i can very well say you sound like those conservatives who are like "first we accept gay people then we have to accept pedophiles"... because you do. this is uncomfortable because lots of us have LIVED through "friendships" like this that have gone south - none of us have had similar experiences simply for being LGBT
Bambino that’s fine. All I’m saying is, you can’t have one side without being okay with both.. If not we are just walking in hypocrisy.
mathboy9 first off, labeling me as “conservative” simply bc you don’t like the argument I’m making (which has nothing to do with politics), just shows you can’t grasp what I’m saying or maybe just immature. Secondly, you are all pretending TJ is a minor. You can’t groom an adult. You’re making strawman arguments
boysofsummer2005 I don't like the argument you're making because I don't believe it's grounded in reality and involves the LGBT community for absolutely no reason when we're talking about a STRAIGHT RELATIONSHIP here - I don't give a fuck about their friendship actually I was just really offended by the analogies. I never said you were conservative I said you sounded conservative and you still do because that's what conservatives do in America now - bring LGBT people into arguments that don't involve them
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Just my 2 cents in. From witnessing firsthand a friendship very similar to it, and becoming a ''victim'' (I hate that fucking word) myself of it, I don't think those friendships are the most safe.
I'm not saying they're all the same, hey, for all we know maybe they have a family'ish bond. But there's good reasons why it's making people uneasy.
Did you not read anything I said prior to jumping in? mathboy9
Seems like you’re jumping in head first without even grasping the concept of the conversation. The whole point of my post is personal comfort doesn’t negate legal rights. LGBT was an example of this for some. If you can’t handle an example being used to make a point, then I’m not so sure you’re cut out for the internet buddy.
And I certainly respect that insight! That is definitely still a vulnerable age. And people have the right to be uneasy. But demanding they conform to expectations is another thing titos
Lol once again has no application to what I am saying. Yes I used the word “slippery slope” but not in a way that is describing a series of events, but rather noting inconsistencies. And you have a nice day as well. mathboy9
Why tf is anyone concerned about me and tj ffs uts Noone business and we are adults!!! And for the last time we are JUST FRIENDS and nothing more ffs if some fucking people are offended by 2 grown ass adults being friends you are the ones with the issues!! I'm over this fucked up shit! If people wanna say it's Noone business who anyone loves and who sleeps with who as in the lgbtq community which there are people who are uncomfortable with that lifestyle but it's not their business is what everyone says. So in the same regard shut up and learn it's none if your damn business who 2 adults are friends with!!