this website has gotten more toxic than before i left, and i was on this website from 2016-2018
i’m on a clarity walk rn and i’ve been thinking about this a lot and it bothers me so here we go
before i left y’all were just yelling at people over multis, now everyone’s consistently personally attacking each other and there’s a lack of understanding or compassion especially when dealing with people with learning disabilities
i swear its like twice or more a week i see a top blog attacking someone with disabilities or provoking someone like tcold312, like okay i get it they’re bad people but blog ONCE or peacefully talk to them and help educate them. attacking them multiple times over and over will do nothing but provoke them and make it worse, possibly provoking them to do worse. i’ve had MUCH more success peacefully talking to someone than yelling at them about how terrible they are. these people need HELP and encouragement to go ask for help irl, not constant attacks. (and no this blog is not solely about tcold he is just good example, i’ve seen this happen with multiple people)
and there’s so much people BRAGGING over how they made someone feel bad and spamming their hateful blogs. y’all should actually try to help EDUCATE people rather than tearing them down and laughing at their apologies. if they aren’t too responsive, constant hate blogs aren’t gonna fix shit. when something bad happens you’re going to feel TERRIBLE
i just feel like people on heres true intentions aren’t to help educate others but rather to attack them and tear them down, and there’s no allowance for self growth on this site
i’m not perfect either and i do understand how some people react, but a lot of grown adults here act like i did when i was 14 on this site
anyways i’ll probably play like one more survivor and group game then leave again because this environment is not healthy for me, i’m trying to overcome my own anxiety issues and seeing people i thought were good letting others influence them into toxic behaviors does not help my own self growth and makes me anxious to talk to people on this website. i’ve seen so many people here take a dark path and it hurts
i wanted to make this blog to maybe make some people more aware of their own actions and help create a more positive environment (but its also tengaged so will i be shocked if this gets negged? no)
i just want y’all to know if you EVER need help (and you’re not a pedo that’s a different story) please message me, i’m here to talk to anyone❤️
dam yea this is a great written blog ! i think with situations like this its like with twitter trolls or other social media platforms or even like car rage because ppl are hidden behind a laptop or a car it takes away a bit of the humanity so its harder to appreciat the consequences of actions/words
true that there's a lotta people here who thrive on negativity and nothing else
there's always been drama but it used to be more lighthearted and tg used to feel like more of a community
hope you don't feel like you HAVE to leave but totally get where you're coming from
It's like when a tengager dies and everyone acts nice for a week saying how they are changed and will monitor their actions just to revert back to their old ways. It's why I barely am active anymore. People so far off from reality these days.
I am out of the loop on what tcold did but Thomas is a sweet person in general and If someone was to take a moment and talk to him instead of downing him i am sure they would get farther. As for this site, its fucking toxic. i have forbade my son was getting an account.
